I wouldn't want to date some who was bi just because they were bi, I thought you were either gay or straight and I wouldn't know where I stood with a bi person.
Pretty stupid.
I think you are getting it wrong, I would decline to be with a transman if they had a vagina (in foresight) in this case Tom was happy with Shirley until he found out that she is trans and blamed her for feeling violated.
Yep exactly
Yep this could be the case sometimes, but their views of women are still supported by the culture.
No it does not necessarily apply to every single man at every single period of his life, I said in general, in general is not absolute.
Gender roles restrict men as well but...
Sexism as a system targets women.
I sound more resentful because I believe because of patriarchy men in general are sexist is some way? Ok if you say so.
I was talking about a system of sexism that targets women, not peoples individual prejudices and hangs up that is not supported by a system or culture. I realize that has been very difficult for people to accept.
I'm saying it's just distracting from the real issues of sexism, "oh but women can be sexist too" great, a couple of women sitting round a tea pot talking about what jerks men can be is not something I'm going to loose sleep over or even feel sorry for men about.
I wasn't making a case for man vs woman, I was making a case for one is systematic and one isn't, how does it really effect a mans life that some individual women thinks he is a jerk really?
Cry me a river