or this one: from Dictionary.com, sur·ren·der [suh-ren-der] Show IPA
verb (used with object)
1.
to yield (something) to the possession or power of another; deliver up possession of on demand or under duress: to surrender the fort to the enemy; to surrender the stolen goods to the police...
Some of them may not be necessarily negative but just referenced to support a point. But Tolstoy, after reading her book, he was one of the biggest freaks of the lot!
Tolstoy, Leo Steinberg, Kobo Abe, Tennessee Williams, James Baldwin, Theodore H. Van De Velde, Isaac Bashevis Singer, Sigmund Freud, Gustave Flaubert, Bram Stoker, D. H. Lawrence, Andre Brink, Italo Calvino, Don DeLillo, Norman O Brown, Augustine, Norman Mailer, Marcel Proust, Maimonides...
Yes this is how I interpret the occupation chapter. Dworkin's writing is always very passionate and emotive and full on, apart from Heartbreak which was much more easy going. I will tell you the other male writers when I get home.
When I was 5 I thought the genitals rubbed together which must be pleasurable and thought people had sex for pleasure only not for reproduction. I had no idea that the penis went inside, I was shocked when I found that out, I had no instinct for it at all.
Don't worry I won't kick your butt. I believe a lot of women have bad experiences of penetration the first time they have it, I know this can be prevented but we aren't really caught how, I personally discovered how.
Because of this I think she was saying that is one reason and possibility...
Could you please expand bit more on what make it instinctual? Obviously it is need for reproduction, but from my experience it was not instinctual for me, I had to be taught it.
You know you're an introvert when you get invited to the party and you are in deep thought over whether or not you should go for weeks and you are weighing up the pros and cons, like "will there be food?"
I am doing that right now as I post this.