They aren't the same thing because of social constructs around gender, not because naturally they aren't the same. What I am saying it that gender is a myth.
So because YOU say men and women are not the same and therefore should be treated differently (despite the fact that we haven't found any significant differences) that makes it true? Well done, you're smashing it!
I'm embarrassed to be human to be honest. I easily get turned off people, someone would say something homophobic for example and other people are like "yeah but he grows on you you know. Like yeah at first he is a douche bag but once you see past that you love him." And I'm like "you people are...
Apparently every "non-ugly" woman is pro-porn I guess?
But like the pro-porn types that don't want their children to be porn stars, you know, those people.
I find that with anti-porn discussions you get trolls that say a woman is anti-porn because she is ugly and jealous of porn stars and secretly wishes she looked like one and secretly wishes loads of men would want to f her.