I am honestly confused by this whole thread. :confused: There are so many levels of confusion, I am not sure where to start.
First: do Christians have rules about oral sex? Seriously? If so, why?
2. The gigantic presumption of the preacher does not surprise me. I agree that he is...
No argument from me on that! Mostly because I freely admit that I do not feel I am expert enough to either 'yea' or 'nay' that description.
Experientially, I know that it works for me - however, it does not always work in the way I assumed it would, so I am much more cautious than I was once...
I'm not a Christian, so can't speak to their viewpoint directly; however, I do have a view of the Creator/Creatrix as being a sort of marriage, and Creation is what they birth.
However, I do not mean that to be literal in any sense. That analogy is simply the closest approximation I know of...
Well, honestly, when I am dishonest it is to please myself. Generally I agree it's a bad policy; but sometimes it is more expedient, and if I need to choose it as an option, provided I can justify it to my own conscience, that's good enough for me.
But I don't have a point, so the only point in question is yours, and the need to prove your own point is a strong proof of the point you are making herein.
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I really don't think there's a universal answer to this. I myself rarely need to fake an orgasm, but when I have, it has been for various reasons:
1. to protect the male ego
2. because I was tired and wanted it over
3. to annoy people in the next room
4. because I thought of something really...