You haven't made anything clear. Your simply stating that because of your experience of shared living in your youth with other males and having felt obliged to keep secret their promiscuity. You then somehow accuse priests of casually doing the same only in this case its with under age children...
I have to say... you don't need to have lived in a dorm to understand that in youth many males cover for their friends less than honest liason's with girls outside their relationship.. Women however are no different in this regard.
What I do find quite shocking however is that you seem to...