Thank you for your honest and your great descriptives.
Help me understand?
1) Everyone is born atheist
Technically yes. I don't see how it could be any other way.
A baby that doesn't even have the awareness to recognize its own limbs as its own certainly doesn't have the mental capacity to hold the concept of a god in its mind, to say nothing of actually accepting that concept as true.
That being said, we seem to have innate characteristics that, while they serve us well in lots of ways, lead us astray on things like gods:
- a tendency to favour type 1 errors (false positives) over type 2 errors (false negatives).
- an overactive tendency toward attribution of agency (i.e. when you hear the leaves of a bush rustle, you'll sometimes think it's an animal when it was only the wind).
Take those two factors and throw in some post hoc ergo propter hoc and counting the hits/ignoring the misses (e.g. "I prayed for rain and then it rained, so my prayer must have worked... and all those times I prayed and it didn't come true, I must have just been doing it wrong") and I think rhat gets you 90% of the way to the organized religion landscape we see today.
2) Religion is false, and comes from societal/parental narratives only
No, not all religion is false.
Some religions - e.g. the UUs and some Quakers - tend not to have factual claims in their doctrines that can be evaluated as "true" or "false."
I'd say that it's only
revealed religion that tends to be false, and even then not on every point: I mean, if a religion says its god told humanity "don't eat rotten meat," I'm not going to say that doing this is a good idea.
3) People are generally rational except when it comes to outrageous claims that give our lives meaning (God only, really, most people don't believe in other things irrationally)
Ha! Heck, no.
I gave an example in my last post of how people are irrational that has nothing to do with religion: we're really bad at estimating risk and expected benefit for rare events. This is how lotteries stay in business, for instance.
We are irrational a
lot of the time. It's just that on most things, when our understanding is wrong, reality occasionally slaps us in the face to drill that point home.
When it comes to most religious beliefs, though, the belief system is set up in a way that it includes nothing falsifiable - no opportunity for reality to slap you in the face and say "no, your understanding is wrong; look!" ... so there's nothing keeping our normal tendency toward irrationality in check.
4) 1-3 explains how 90% and up are deists/theists
My corrected version, combined with millenia of social pressure up to and including executing non-conformists and yes: this explains the prevalence of theism.
Why is 1-4 more likely than "Most people believe in God except a very few, because God exists and is in our consciousness/zeitgeist)"?
I'm not sure what you mean. It seems like you're saying something like "we believe God exists because we believe God exists."
... but it seems like you're arguing that belief in God comes from God. A few thoughts on that:
- this sounds like a claim that, if true, could be demonstrated. Good luck.
- I would hope we can both agree on all the ways that humanity tends to be irrational. I think it's pretty clear that this irrationality (along with other social trends that we probably both agree exist) is sufficient to explain theism, so I'm not sure why we would need to look for other explanations.
- I assume you aren't arguing that belief in Thor comes from Thor, or belief in Quetzalcoatl from Quetzalcoatl, so it seems like you're still conceding that false belief in gods can arise on its own; you just see your god as an exception. Personally, I see no reason to see your god or your beliefs as special.