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A prisoner in my own room.

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SoulTYPE

Well-Known Member
Okay, one of my friends moved out of his house and has nowhere to go.
I let him stay here until he found a place. But he is so hard to live with.

1)He leaves clothes, work uniform, bag, food contianers bottles everywhere. It got so bad I was tripping over things and couldn't even open the door.
My dad complained about the room, and I spent HOURS to clean it up.
he came home from work and in 0 minutes it was putrid again.

2)I went out and when I came back he had my pc apart, pulling cd drives out, and was banging the mouse on desk. "How do I play music?" he asks.
If he had've waited, I could have shown him that either Media Player or Winamp would do it. he has already maken me take my pc in for service twice.

3)If I make a call or talk to my parents, he says "Who's that. Who are you calling. What are you talking about?" He questions EVERYTHING I do."Where'd you go." "Who with". He isn't my parole officer FFS.

I even offered him the spare room, with a FULL bed and more room, but he'd
"RATHER" sleep on the floor in my room. And make it uncomfortable with me.

Do I chuck him out? Or do I attempt a LONG talk? Help me ut here ppl.
 
linwood

linwood

Well-Known Member
Talk to him and don`t leave anything out.

Do it calmly and politely.

If his behaviour doesn`t improve within a week, chuck him.
 
Runt

Runt

Well-Known Member
I'd get rid of him, but then, I'm a loner by nature. I wouldn't do well with the most well behaved of roommates, let alone a complete slob. So maybe talk, then consider throwing him out? *shrugs*
 
jewscout

jewscout

Religious Zionist
You just gotta break it down for him Soul. Just be like, Look man your my boy and all but this has gotta stop blah blah blah. Just come to him as a man ask him for a little courtesy for giving him a place to crash. I don't think that's too much to ask.
 
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huajiro

Well-Known Member
Soultype:

I think you know you need to get rid of him, you just want to hear someone else say it so you dont feel like such an a-s when you do it.
 
FyreBrigidIce

FyreBrigidIce

Returning Noob
Ok this is just my own thoughts. The first time a roommate asked me who I was talking to I would have to tell them it was none of their flippin' business until I decide to tell them otherwise.

Sorry I can not stand nosey roomates who have nothing better to do than take advantage of the help they are recieving.

I agree that you should talk to him and explain to him the boundaries that he is not to cross if he wants to continue having a place to stay. If he crosses those boundaries after the talk then I will let you borrow my size 11 boot to kick right square in the tush as he goes out the door.
 
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