You're fine. I didn't take your comment as debate, just thought I'd toss in a reminder for any and all.Sorry @JustGeorge . I didn't realize I was being dragged into an Interfaith Discussion
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You're fine. I didn't take your comment as debate, just thought I'd toss in a reminder for any and all.Sorry @JustGeorge . I didn't realize I was being dragged into an Interfaith Discussion
Yes, I am aware that many Christians do not 'like' religion. One reason some don't like it is because it puts restrictions on them, like having to follow God's laws, but I believe that following those laws is what sets us free, free of our lower material nature. I believe that God's laws are our greatest protection.I don’t like religion. I actually think of it as bondage. Nothing compares to the freedom I have found in Christ.
…Therefore if the Son makes you free, you shall be free indeed. John 8:36
I included you because I recall you once said that religious people enjoy being part of a religion, something like that.I don't know why you are telling me that, or why you think that should matter to me.
Well, I'm not going to go into too much detail but I've had a whirlwind of a year that has forced a lot of growth and changes for me, especially internal ones. I just don't need dogmatic, hierarchical, authoritarian religions. I don't need mediators, books or buildings. I feel more spiritual around animals or trees. I wasn't going to church when I had a chance to, anyway. Nothing against Jesus, but I think he left the building a long time ago.Just to even things out around here, I thought I'd create a thread about... well, religion. And how its affecting you currently in your daily life. (And I mean you, not the guy next to you, or your country, or your dog's squirrel friend.)
What's going on in your religious life? Examining any scriptures, or reading any religious texts? Find a new bhajan? Have an upcoming ritual? Taking part in your church's community? Content with your beliefs, or re-examining? How are things, religiously speaking?
I'll second that, and I have plenty of animals and trees and animals in trees, birds in trees, etc. I can hear them the squirrels and birds chirping right now, and I can see them climbing all over the trees and bird-feeders which double as squirrel-feeders. These critters are eating me out of house and home, but they make me feel spiritual, so what can I do?I don't need mediators, books or buildings. I feel more spiritual around animals or trees.
If you are mad about it, I don't think it is your spiritual side that is driving you. I think there is something else going on. A person that truly sacrifices gets joy out of it. A martyr for instance is not what people think it is. A martyr is not someone who suffers without feeling joy at the same time. A martyr may suffer materially, but not spiritually. Not that I know about martyrdom myself as a personal experience, because I'm sacrificing very little. I feel immersed in pleasuring myself. I feel banal right now. At this moment, anyway.And as a Baha'i you know we have two natures, the lower material nature and the higher spiritual nature, so maybe I have a conflict between my two natures. Maybe my lower material nature wants to enjoy itself and my higher spiritual nature wants to serve the Cause of God. Thus far my spiritual nature has won out. I guess that is a good thing but my material nature is spitting mad.
I really relate to this. This has been one of the most 'restricted' years of my life, and I'm scrambling to find myself and stay spiritually afloat when things are chaotic, plans go unfulfilled, and I feel like the floor's been pulled out from under me. I find I enjoy books and buildings, but I don't need them. (Think I'm neutral on mediators.)Well, I'm not going to go into too much detail but I've had a whirlwind of a year that has forced a lot of growth and changes for me, especially internal ones. I just don't need dogmatic, hierarchical, authoritarian religions. I don't need mediators, books or buildings. I feel more spiritual around animals or trees. I wasn't going to church when I had a chance to, anyway. Nothing against Jesus, but I think he left the building a long time ago.
Thanks for your perspective. I believe Jesus fulfilled all God’s laws perfectly, as no human being is able to, certainly not me. Trusting in Christ’s perfect righteousness sets me free from living a life controlled by rules. Rather, I desire to respond to God in love, live for Him, and let Him transform my life through the power of Jesus Christ.Yes, I am aware that many Christians do not 'like' religion. One reason some don't like it is because it puts restrictions on them, like having to follow God's laws, but I believe that following those laws is what sets us free, free of our lower material nature. I believe that God's laws are our greatest protection.
“Think not that We have revealed unto you a mere code of laws. Nay, rather, We have unsealed the choice Wine with the fingers of might and power. To this beareth witness that which the Pen of Revelation hath revealed. Meditate upon this, O men of insight!…Whenever My laws appear like the sun in the heaven of Mine utterance, they must be faithfully obeyed by all, though My decree be such as to cause the heaven of every religion to be cleft asunder. He doth what He pleaseth. He chooseth; and none may question His choice.”
The might work for you personally but how do you think it is going to work for society to have no rules?Thanks for your perspective. I believe Jesus fulfilled all God’s laws perfectly, as no human being is able to, certainly not me. Trusting in Christ’s perfect righteousness sets me free from living a life controlled by rules. Rather, I desire to respond to God in love, live for Him, and let Him transform my life through the power of Jesus Christ.
I think you are being too black and white about this. Not everyone who truly sacrifices gets joy out of it. That is overly simplistic and does not take other factors of a person's life into consideration.If you are mad about it, I don't think it is your spiritual side that is driving you. I think there is something else going on. A person that truly sacrifices gets joy out of it. A martyr for instance is not what people think it is. A martyr is not someone who suffers without feeling joy at the same time. A martyr may suffer materially, but not spiritually. Not that I know about martyrdom myself as a personal experience, because I'm sacrificing very little. I feel immersed in pleasuring myself. I feel banal right now. At this moment, anyway.
Here is how Baha'u'llah talks about His sufferings. It's beyond my understanding:
Glorified be Thy name, O Lord my God! Thou beholdest my dwelling-place, and the prison into which I am cast, and the woes I suffer. By Thy might! No pen can recount them, nor can any tongue describe or number them. I know not, O my God, for what purpose Thou hast abandoned me to Thine adversaries. Thy glory beareth me witness! I sorrow not for the vexations I endure for love of Thee, nor feel perturbed by the calamities that overtake me in Thy path. My grief is rather because Thou delayest to fulfill what Thou hast determined in the Tablets of Thy Revelation, and ordained in the books of Thy decree and judgment.
My blood, at all times, addresseth me saying: "O Thou Who art the Image of the Most Merciful! How long will it be ere Thou riddest me of the captivity of this world, and deliverest me from the bondage of this life? Didst Thou not promise me that Thou shalt dye the earth with me, and sprinkle me on the faces of the inmates of Thy Paradise?" To this I make reply: "Be thou patient and quiet thyself. The things thou desirest can last but an hour. As to me, however, I quaff continually in the path of God the cup of His decree, and wish not that the ruling of His will should cease to operate, or that the woes I suffer for the sake of my Lord, the Most Exalted, the All-Glorious, should be ended. Seek thou my wish and forsake thine own. Thy bondage is not for my protection, but to enable me to sustain successive tribulations, and to prepare me for the trials that must needs repeatedly assail me. Perish that lover who discerneth between the pleasant and the poisonous in his love for his beloved! Be thou satisfied with what God hath destined for thee. He, verily, ruleth over thee as He willeth and pleaseth. No God is there but Him, the Inaccessible, the Most High."
(Baha'u'llah, Prayers and Meditations by Baha'u'llah, p. 10)
Yes, I am aware that many Christians do not 'like' religion. One reason some don't like it is because it puts restrictions on them, like having to follow God's laws, but I believe that following those laws is what sets us free, free of our lower material nature. I believe that God's laws are our greatest protection.
I don't recall saying that.I included you because I recall you once said that religious people enjoy being part of a religion, something like that.
I think at that time I responded and agreed that most do enjoy it, or they would not be doing it, but I do not enjoy it, so I am the exception.
Well, then maybe it was another atheist who said that. It might have been @F1fan.I don't recall saying that.
That's interesting. That is how I feel about life in this world, but I don't attribute that feeling to being a Baha'i.I never liked the religion of Christianity when I was a Christian, but I felt trapped in it, so I was shackled in emotional bondage to it for the majority of my life. I feel like I was imprisoned, but only my cell door was always open, and it took me a long time to realize that I could leave whenever I wanted to. I never once felt "freedom in Christ" or genuine peace in my life, as other Christians claimed to experience in theirs.
You have no reason to be sorry. A look back at the post that started this thread indicates that your post was actually well within its parameters.
If you want to share further that would be great. If you don’t want to, that’s fine as well.
You are two of the classiest posters here at RF, and that also is a "sincere compliment".It is what I would expect from you.
Please take this as a sincere compliment.
That's interesting. That is how I feel about life in this world, but I don't attribute that feeling to being a Baha'i.
My trapped-ness is related to my general life situation, a situation I cannot just snap my fingers and waft away.
I felt that way when my husband was still alive but feel more that way now that I am alone.
However, I can surely relate to what you said about "freedom in Christ" because lots of Baha'is feel like they have "freedom in Baha'u'llah" but I don't feel that way. Most of those Baha'i still have spouses and I wonder if they would still feel that way if they found themselves suddenly in my situation.
I’m not suggesting society should not have rules. I’m just saying that my relationship with God is based on love, not rules. I believe God desires a relationship with each person, rather than religion.The might work for you personally but how do you think it is going to work for society to have no rules?
You and millions of other people all over the world.I'm not exaggerating when I say that being a Christian was a nightmare for me. I'm genuinely relieved to be free of it, and I have no desire to ever return to it.
That is also a Baha'i belief. Just as Christians relate to God through Jesus, Baha'is relate to God through Baha'u'llah.I’m just saying that my relationship with God is based on love, not rules. I believe God desires a relationship with each person, rather than religion.