you were taught to be slaves,think like slaves act like slaves, you personally or someone in your distant past, i dont mean to offend but you need to get over it, it wasnt you!
some people claim the identity "African" then have problems with it when they find out about African complicity in the slave trade .
This is where you are wrong kai. It is me, it is the vast majority of blacks indigenous to America. We have perpetuated slave mentality among ourselves for generations. We learned so many things that started out as behaviour learned in order to stay alive in slave conditions. These things, and too many to get into now, have persisted and are causing us problems even today. Slavery is more than chains kai, and I'm surprised you don't know that. Getting over it is easier said than done. Look around kai. Let's not pretend that because the shackles are gone that everything is so fine and dandy and none but a few meet racism but in isolated incidents. Let's not do that, because doing that is the reason why there has never been an honest national discussion on race relations between blacks and whites. We were unceremoniously kicked off the plantation, and basically told to shut about it and be glad we escaped the situation with our lives. Slavery is done as far as the law is concerned and that's that right? There isn't anymore to be said is there? There are no after effects are there? After hundreds of years in bondage and so many more in sub-human status, we are to kiss and make-up with not so much as a mumbling word said ever again?
This is why we can't talk about it honestly kai, because when people like me try to simply explain what all this has meant to us up until the present day, we are told to "get over it". I'll get over it when we no longer suffer as a community from the things our forefathers endured. As slaves we were taught to mistrust one another as a tactic to keep millions of slaves in line. Once we mistrust each other we will not listen to one another speak of escape and freedom for fear of death and other reprisals. We still do that today kai. Did you know that? Do you know we look upon each other with suspicion and are hardest on each other, and more critical about each other than we are anyone else? We are more prone to bring harm and destruction to one another than any one hence black-on-black crime still being a major issue in the black community.
In order to "get over it" as you say, we black people (and it would help if white people would also listen and pay attention to it as well) must go back into the time of slavery and study it to understand why we act the way we do. Why we think the way we think. This will help us to improve our own situation and more forward so that slavery will be a grim but necessary reminder of what we must do, and how we must never propagate these things among each other ever again.