I recently had an incredibly heated discussion about what I am. I define myself as an agnostic atheist; Agnostic in what I know (or lack thereof) and atheistic in my beliefs (again, lack thereof). However my friend continued to make the argument that agnosticism is the middle position between atheism and theism. While I agree in some regards it may be, I stated that he did not understand what the three terms meant, and was completely thrown off when I brought up Gnosticism.
Currently we remain at a standstill, but I hope to continue this up again soon with him. In the meantime, I wanted to hear what you guys had to say, whether you feel I am in the wrong, or if you agree with me, maybe some things I could say to help my case. Enjoy.
Hi, Daviso. I think it's really important to keep in mind that no such things as atheists and agnostics actually exist. That's the first thing. Once we are aware of that, it makes it seem pretty silly to argue over the nature of atheists and agnostics.
What is curious to me is that arguments such as these often become even more intense and ugly that arguments over, "Who is a real Christian?"
Of course, Christians don't exist either but they're easier to conceive. They're people who study the Bible, for example. People who think of Jesus in a positive way. People who hold membership in some church which proclaims itself to be a Christian church.
But what's an atheist or agnostic? Well, just a definition within our own minds. Usually we don't even realize that assent or disagreement with a specific string of words is required if we're to come close to defining them. We think we can define atheists and agnostics with our own paraphrases.
"An atheist is a guy who doesn't believe in God," we say.
We should be saying, "An atheist is a guy who would assent to this statement: 'God, as understood from the Bible stories, does not exist as any sort of willful Being.'"
Or whatever statement(s) we choose.
Just my opinion of it.
Anyway, my advice is that if you love your friend, and if you believe a fierce argument could cause a rift between you, you should not get back to him with your beliefs about the nature of atheism and agnosticism. If he brings it up, smile and say that he makes good sense and that you are reconsidering your opinions.