The big reason I still don't buy that Jesus was married, even though there are ultimately no theological problems with it from an Orthodox perspective, is that when He died, He already had to have St. John care for His Mother. If He was married and died at 33 years old, then He would have left His wife and young child(ren) behind with no one to care for them. There was no such thing as a social safety net back in those days, and they would have been left with no one to care for them, which would have been too hard to bear for any family that Jesus may have had. I believe He chose out of considerateness not to be married, so as not to place that burden on a wife and children. It would already have been enough with Jesus out traveling place to place for 3 years, but to have Him die, resurrect and ascend to Heaven, too?