Democrats are an incredibly repressive and restrictive party
I don't think so. Democrats regulate in an effort to protect people and the environment. If you've had trouble getting a building permit because of such regulations, for example, that's not repression.
My brother-in-law, who lives in California, and who is a Trump Republican like you are, complained about the hoops he had to go through to get permits to expand his house, but he got them and had the work done, albeit in about six months more time than he would have liked.
And he complains about the taxes, yet he is quite well off. He prospered in the system he now decries.
He also listens to conservative indoctrination media, which exists in part to get people like you and him to help them deregulate in order to increase profits by getting you to see the Democrats as your problem as you and he clearly do.
I'm guessing that what you're calling repression has barely affected you.
Repression is forbidding abortion, contraception, IVF, same sex marriage, and LGBTQ+ freedoms, and banning books.
they don't care one bit about you.
Yes, that's part of the message that you accepted uncritically. All one need do to dispel that myth is compare and contrast what Trump and Biden accomplished and what they tried and failed to accomplish. I won't rehash all of the things Trump did to American and Biden did for America until American voters foolishly gave the House back to the Republicans initiating gridlock again because I'm sure you've seen and ignored such things before and would again.
Democrats run the most oppressive and least free states in the entire nation that is undisputed by sensible intelligent people who actually know what freedom and liberty is.
Yet like my brother-in-law who hates his state, you live in one of those states by choice - New York in your case.
You are free to relocate to a state more compatible with the Republican vision if you like - maybe Kentucky or Alabama - but you choose not to. Your taxes will be lower and there will be less regulation, but you'll also have much less infrastructure and be surrounded by more ignorance, poverty, and despair.
Would that be a better life for you? If so, go for it. If not, perhaps you should recognize that what you're getting is worth the increased cost and regulation compared to the model the Republicans create where they hold sway.
I've lived in both. I had a medical practice in California that become unprofitable and over-regulated with the advent of the HMOs beginning in the late eighties. Private practices were disappearing and physicians begam working for or with the HMOs. I held out as long as I could, but Medicare couldn't compete with them and my patients signed up for the HMOs for the free eye care or whatever. Eventually, I was not covering my overhead, relented, and took some HMO contracts. My income fell further, my autonomy diminished, my workload increased, and so did my liability.
So, I relocated to rural Missouri in 1998 where I worked 11 more years before retiring. It was a throwback to the fifties. It was a poor community, the roads were in ill repair, meth labs were prevalent, there were a lot of amputees from farm accidents, few went on to college, and a lot of people said
ain't. It was a deprived culture. Whereas I initially expected to work as long as I was physically able and then to die and be buried there, before long, I knew that I would not retire there. I would have returned to California had I stayed in the States, but by about 2004, I was becoming disaffected with America altogether, and I knew that I wanted to retire and expatriate as soon as possible.
Funny anecdote. On my first night in the ICU at my Missouri hospital, an ICU nurse named Pansy asked me what brought me to rule Missouri. I was a bit confused but explained to her that though I was flattered that she thought I could rule her state, I was only looking for more control over my own life and practice.
Eventually, I understood that she was saying
rural Missouri but pronounced the word
rule. That intrigued me. I was aware that some Asians and Americans like Bostonians don't pronounce Rs like mainstream Americans ("watah" for water or "hat" for heart), but that wasn't the case here. She pronounced the initial R like I did.
So I explained that I say 'Roo-rull' and she couldn't hear a difference. So I tried to help:
Me: Say roo
She: roo
Me: rull
She: rull
Me: roo-rull
She: rule