I knew I shoulda listened to my own advice and stayed out of this thread...
I don't want to play ping pong here, I just don't see PureX as angry, which was your original statement. Maybe everyone's got a little arrogance.
I believe him though, when he says he's not angry (in the face of you repeatedly telling him he is) even as I know he says he's challenging you.
He may tell you things you don't like, don't appreciate, don't respect, don't agree with, annoy you, insult you, anger you, (add anything else here that fits). That's not my responsibility, so I don't need updates on his most recent behavior. He's treated me kindly in the past when I was going through a difficult time grieving the loss of family members. I just want people to know he has that kindness, and a genuine curiosity about people and yes, he does seem to enjoy a bit of a brawl.
But that's on you as much as on him; it takes two, and I can't help but wonder if you're enjoying this as much as he is, because... you're still here.
So carry on, I might read along here or there even though this isn't my usual hill to die on, but I do like a good conversation, because that's why I'm here.