Jollybear
Hey
I tried to explain. I'm not sure what you're not getting. In relativity, time and space combine into space-time. If you imagine space as just two dimensions (a plane) then space-time would be a 3 dimensional block. Imagine time to be the vertical axis, with (say) the future in the up direction. The important thing is that change over time is the same as distance in the up direction, so the whole of space-time is unchanging. Things within it experience change but not the universe as a whole.
Part of the evidence that things are like this is that there is no absolute now - or any absolute moment that applies to every observer simultaneity itself is relative. Also different observers have different time axes - they all (in our analogy) point in the up direction but can be at angles to each other (that's why we get time dilation).
Do you believe theres a God?