You need to realize that physical suffering is not the reality of the Spiritual nature of Creation, and specifically the journey of the human soul.
Physical suffering is not an issue for me, but psychic suffering is. I know that the material world is temporal and that psychic suffering does not affect the soul, and I know it will be come to an end after I die, but I am not dead yet.
But this is not really about ME, because I am not really suffering most of the time, not anymore. This is about other people and animals who suffer.
I am sticking to my original statement. God created a world in which humans and animals would suffer and die, and we are expected to have faith in God, that there will be no more pain and suffering after we die. Not ONLY does all of that have to be taken on faith, but also we are told very little about the afterlife, so we cannot
possibly know if we will even LIKE the afterlife, where we will have to live forever. I do not know WHY people cannot understand why all this is problematic.
I do not blame atheists one bit for how they feel about God. They have some legitimate complaints.
The religious apologetic that suffering is beneficial because it helps us grow spiritually works for some people but not for everyone. To blame those for whom it does not work is lacking in compassion, because not everyone can make use of suffering, some people just cave. I have not caved, but that is because I am very strong willed.
Moreover, if God only gives people what they can handle as it says in scriptures, why do some people commit suicide? I am not into the blame game, people suffer and sometimes it is more than they can bear. We humans are not all the same.
And that brings up another point. Why do some people suffer so much while other people suffer hardly at all? This suffering some people endure is not always because they made bad choices, it is fate and it is God who is responsible for fate. Why not just face it; the buck stops with God. Sure, we all have free will, but it is constrained by many factors.
Even if suffering is beneficial for humans, that still does not explain why animals (who cannot understand that) have to suffer. Then there is death. What kind of God created a world wherein only humans survive death? IF God is loving, the most one can say is that God loves humans. I have no idea why God even bothered to create animals at all. I know God was supposed to have created them for humans, but most humans do not deserve them. Of course there are a lot of people who love animals and care for them, but what about people who neglect and abuse animals and what about the suffering of animals in the wild? What kind of “Loving God” would allow that?
Sorry, but I am not convinced that God is Loving just because it is written in religious scriptures. I have to see evidence of it. Sure, those people who
feel loved by God believe God is loving but most of those people seem to care very little about others who are not as fortunate as they are. As long as they are happy that is all that matters. They just do not seem to get it that everyone is not like them
By the way, I wrote a thread about three weeks ago called
God and Suffering, but I have not posted it yet because I have not had time to answer all the posts it will probably engender.