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California AB 957 authorizes courts to take transgender kids away from parents.

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
Sure. And they likely would have that right. Though I don't think I have ever come across a time where I thought a man was not capable of giving care as a woman would just because they were a man. You are either trained medically or not. I don't see how the existence of trans women stops them from seeking cis women providers. If anything making trans women more visible and accepted makes it easier since the alternative is that trans women will live in stealth and you won't ever know who is trans or not

It's not about capability of ability, it's about the patient's rights to privacy and as much comfort as possible. And I know women and of women who do not want to give up that right. But in many parts of the world, that privacy-seeking woman might well be harassed as a "transphobe".

I can provide any number of studies that show positive improvement in the mental health outcomes from trans youth yes. Extrapolate from that if it was life saving or not.

That's a different topic. related, but different.

Which comes back to the perception of trans people now. No one ever talks about trans men in this. Only ever in the instance of young girls transitioning and attempting to stop them before they "ruin" themselves. A thing that I have always found weirdly creepy and sexually charged in a way it shouldn't be since we are often talking about underage girls. I digress. But trans men pass incredibly well. The picture in many people's head is a Rocky Horror Picture Show esque parody of a woman on display rather than a genuine woman. The trans women that are beautiful and pass I would imagine most people have no problem using the correct pronouns. But to the "ugly" non-passing trans women there is nothing but scorn, hatred and suspicion. And again the trans men are completely left unthought of.

The question of "beauty" - if i'm understanding you correctly - is yet another thorny issue. I think the reason that there is so much focus on trans women, is that impacts women, and women ARE more vulnerable then men. Men are bigger and stronger. We all know it's fine for people to "punch up" so to speak. If a 10 year old kid is great at their sport, no one minds if they play with the older kids. But the inverse is not true.

So - again - i've not heard a single person on this forum claim that trans people are "differently dangerous" than others. But the problem is that if trans women gain all this access, then bad men can and will take advantage of that.

They are still beholden to the standards of care
Yes, and I'm arguing that the SOC in this case need to be revised.
 

Friend of Mara

Active Member
It's not about capability of ability, it's about the patient's rights to privacy and as much comfort as possible. And I know women and of women who do not want to give up that right. But in many parts of the world, that privacy-seeking woman might well be harassed as a "transphobe".
I feel this and that are different things. I can't really discuss or debate the hypothetical feelings in this scenario. What is the proposition for addressing these feelings?
That's a different topic. related, but different.
That is like saying reducing cancer risks and saving lives from cancer is different.
The question of "beauty" - if i'm understanding you correctly - is yet another thorny issue. I think the reason that there is so much focus on trans women, is that impacts women, and women ARE more vulnerable then men. Men are bigger and stronger. We all know it's fine for people to "punch up" so to speak. If a 10 year old kid is great at their sport, no one minds if they play with the older kids. But the inverse is not true.

So - again - i've not heard a single person on this forum claim that trans people are "differently dangerous" than others. But the problem is that if trans women gain all this access, then bad men can and will take advantage of that.
I don't see in what way bad men cannot take advantage of it already. Again to clarify if this is about bathrooms we can look at the studies on this and there isn't a correlation of trans women and inappropriate bathroom behavior. There is an incredible correlation of violence against trans women in male bathrooms however.
Yes, and I'm arguing that the SOC in this case need to be revised.
And we have discussed that there is a process of talk therapy beforehand. But you disagree that anything beyond that should be allowed. However the evidence says otherwise and the medical standards of multiple countries across the world uphold more or less the same opinion on this. I have also gone through each of the studies that you provided earlier and provided reasoning as to why none of them were a problem for the safety of the hormone blockers.

So in your mind is there any reasonable way ever for a child to prove that they are actually trans and be allowed to have hormone blockers to start transition? Or would you bar every child no matter the circumstances with no wiggle room? Because if its just about revising SOC for stricter requirements on early transition I can understand that. I might not agree with every suggestion but that is something I can sympathize with.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
I feel this and that are different things. I can't really discuss or debate the hypothetical feelings in this scenario. What is the proposition for addressing these feelings?
Whenever possible, society tends to prefer non-zero-sum solutions. That's a good thing. But sometimes situations are totally or somewhat zero-sum. I believe that many aspects of integrating trans people into society are somewhat or largely zero-sum. It's important to remember that as a society we've had to deal with zero-sum situations before. We come up with solutions, and we largely agree with them. Some examples would be: Very tall or large people have to live in a world not ideally designed for them, to a lessor degree, it's the same for left handed people (of which I am one ;) ), young people have various restrictions placed on them, as do the elderly, and so on.

So the idea that we need to warp all of society to accommodate trans people is dubious at best. So, for example, I'm afraid that trans women should not pursue careers in women's health care.

You said: I can provide any number of studies that show positive improvement in the mental health outcomes from trans youth yes. Extrapolate from that if it was life saving or not.

I said that that's a different question than the suicide question, you disagreed, I think?

I believe these are high stakes options. As I'll expand on in a minute, using transitioning drugs on kids is NOT safe and NOT reversible and NOT without long term negatives. We also do not have much long term data available. So short term mental health improvements must not be extrapolated to being long term benefits. We must weigh al of that when we consider using these drugs.

So certainly, reducing suicides is the highest stakes of all. But given all the life long downsides of these drugs the claims of "suicide prevention" need to be rock solid, and they're not. And short term mental health improvements ARE a different beast.

I don't see in what way bad men cannot take advantage of it already. Again to clarify if this is about bathrooms we can look at the studies on this and there isn't a correlation of trans women and inappropriate bathroom behavior. There is an incredible correlation of violence against trans women in male bathrooms however.

Zooming out for a minute, I've had this conversation many times in the last few months, and my perspective is never addressed. So I wonder whether you'd be willing to take a whack at steelmanning my position here. You DO NOT have to agree with it, but I'm interested to know if you understand it?

And we have discussed that there is a process of talk therapy beforehand. But you disagree that anything beyond that should be allowed. However the evidence says otherwise and the medical standards of multiple countries across the world uphold more or less the same opinion on this. I have also gone through each of the studies that you provided earlier and provided reasoning as to why none of them were a problem for the safety of the hormone blockers.

I think you're conclusions are a bit too black and white. For example, earlier you said:

And on that note there is exactly 0% merit behind the social contagion nonsense.

As I'll show in a minute, that's simply not true. I think it's much closer to the truth that social pressure is acknowledged to be a factor, but we do not yet know the varying degrees to which it is a factor. It seems to me that the effects of social pressure will range from none to extremely high, on a case by case basis.
So in your mind is there any reasonable way ever for a child to prove that they are actually trans and be allowed to have hormone blockers to start transition? Or would you bar every child no matter the circumstances with no wiggle room? Because if its just about revising SOC for stricter requirements on early transition I can understand that. I might not agree with every suggestion but that is something I can sympathize with.

I might have softened my stance a bit on this question, but not much.

I'm going to start a new thread to discuss "The Cass Review", an independent study commissioned by England's NHS and published in Feb. 2022.

I'm going to simplify a bit, but I have been told by many scientists over the years that my explanations tend to be "simplified, but not wrong". A few key takeaways from this study:

- There is NO stable, consistently applied SOC. It's quite dynamic, data collection has been weak, and interventions are all over the map.
- The healthcare industry is overwhelmed in trying to deal with the huge spike in GD.
- Social pressure IS a factor in GD.
- The drugs used on kids to aid GD are not safe and do have long term and irreversible side effects. And this reality is not consistently communicated to families.
- Some kids with GD resolve or "desist" without treatment.
- Even the minimally invasion approach of "social transitioning" is not a side-effect-free approach.
- There are tests that assess a child's ability to grasp complex topics like "gender transitioning". These tests would indicate that many kids who are given drugs do not really understand what they're signing up for.

So my earlier stance of "never use these drugs on kids" might be too strong - but only by a tiny bit. I might now say, something like "only in extremely rare circumstances should we use these drugs on kids". As it stands, I believe we are using these drugs far too often, and that in a few years we will look back and realize what a huge mistake using these drugs on kids was.
 

PureX

Veteran Member
More click bait intended to cause fear and loathing of government in a predominantly democratic state. What a surprise! I never would have expected this from a long time member of the right wing echo-chamber!

Oh, wait. It's exactly what I expected.

Never mind.
 
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Shaul

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
More click bait intended to cause fear and loathing of government in a predominantly democratic state. What a surprise! I never would have expected this from a long time member of the right wing echo-chamber!

Oh, wait. It's exactly what I expected.

Never minds.
The OP simply provides a summary and link to a Bill passed by the California legislature. Nothing about that is "click bait".
 

Guitar's Cry

Disciple of Pan
So on the one hand many posters acknowledge the flaws in our healthcare system, but somehow on the new, complex, evolving topic of GD, somehow the doctors should be trusted without question???

I don't mean to butt in to the conversation, but I don't think the idea is to trust doctors unquestionably, but that a family's doctor is in a better position to understand the needs of the person than say a politician legislating the issue.
 

icehorse

......unaffiliated...... anti-dogmatist
Premium Member
I don't mean to butt in to the conversation, but I don't think the idea is to trust doctors unquestionably, but that a family's doctor is in a better position to understand the needs of the person than say a politician legislating the issue.

No worries about butting in :)

Of course I agree, but sadly the whole trans world has become heavily politicized on both the left and the right.

More than we'd like to acknowledge, our healthcare systems are heavily influenced by advocacy groups :( Your typical family doctor is probably not a specialized endocrinologist, so she relies on the specialists, but the specialists are influenced by for-profit lobbyists and political advocacy groups.

So to hope that families of trans kids are getting unbiased, state of the art healthcare is probably unwise. We should all be aware of how fragile and flawed the system is.

And it does not help when advocates (usually on the left), spout things like "gender affirming drugs are safe and reversible".
 

Shaul

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
There’s a reason that the right wing no longer calls itself the party of family values. Even they knew it’s not true.
Ripping children away from parents for not "affirming their gender identity" according to capricious opinions of state employees with a vested interest in destroying families is not a family value. Using teachers and other mandatory child abuse reports as "snitches" is not a family value. Misleading impressionable children into a delusion that they have gender identity issues when they don't and then exploiting their naivete is not a family value. Rushing to put them on puberty blockers and life altering medical procedures and mutilations is not a family value.
 

Shaul

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
A "summary" fully intended to mislead the reader in such a way as to cause fear and loathing of those democratic liberal criminals in California!

SOOOOO predictable!
The summary read: "The California legislature has passed AB 957 and sent it to the Governor. It revises the state's Family Code to authorize courts to remove children from the custody of their parents for failure to affirm the child's "gender identity"." Two straight forward sentences. No characterization nor opinion in either one. Both statements are simple statements of fact. There is no misleading in them whatsoever.
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
Ripping children away from parents for not "affirming their gender identity" according to capricious opinions of state employees with a vested interest in destroying families is not a family value. Using teachers and other mandatory child abuse reports as "snitches" is not a family value. Misleading impressionable children into a delusion that they have gender identity issues when they don't and then exploiting their naivete is not a family value. Rushing to put them on puberty blockers and life altering medical procedures and mutilations is not a family value.
Can you imagine the incredible trauma for a child to be ripped away by leftist jackbooted goons from their own parents?
 

Twilight Hue

Twilight, not bright nor dark, good nor bad.
It is the full circle of making children wards of the State.

Give me just one generation of youth, and I’ll transform the whole world.” —Vladimir Ilyich Lenin

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“Give me four years to teach the children and the seed I have sown will never be uprooted.”
—Vladimir Ilyich Lenin

“Destroy the family, you destroy the country. The way to crush the bourgeoisie is to grind them between the millstones of taxation and inflation”. —Vladimir Ilyich Lenin
It's not hard to see which party holds that playbook.
 

YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
What party controls/has the...

1. Governor
2. Secretary of state
3. Attorney general
4. Both chambers of the state legislature
You know, @Friend of Mara got me thinking about cynical Dems having total control of the legislature, so they could conceivably cobble together a useless bill and get it passed, and signed. The point is, the bill will accomplish little, but the politicians, in their vanity, can point to it as one of their great accomplishment. It is, in effect, little more than window-dressing. Cynical? Oh, yeah. But, quite plausible in this political climate. A solution for a problem that doesn't warrant a legal solution? LOL.

Then again, with Newsom and crew, who knows what is next in line for them to wreck.
 

F1fan

Veteran Member
Ripping children away from parents for not "affirming their gender identity" according to capricious opinions of state employees with a vested interest in destroying families is not a family value.
Nor is allowing parental abuse by the ignorant and disinformed. Children have rights too, and the rights aren’t built on right wing ignorance. Trans children have the right to be who they are, not what a narrow minded society says, or insensitive parents. Look at the suicide rate of trans people being pressured to repress who they are.

Using teachers and other mandatory child abuse reports as "snitches" is not a family value.
So let children be abused even if signs of abuse is being witnessed? I guess children have less value to conservatives than their political rhetoric. So much for family values.

Misleading impressionable children into a delusion that they have gender identity issues when they don't and then exploiting their naivete is not a family value.
Did you see this on FOX or Newsmax?

Rushing to put them on puberty blockers and life altering medical procedures and mutilations is not a family value.
It is when this advice is given my medical experts who have diagnosed their patients, unlike conservative idealists who want some Stepford Society that doesn’t care what harm it causes.
 
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We Never Know

No Slack
Nor is allowing parental abuse by the ignorant and disinformed. Children have rights too, and the rights aren’t built on right wing ignorance. Trans children have the right to be who they are, not what a narrow minded society says.


So let children be abused even if signs of abuse is being witnessed? I guess children have less value to conservatives than their political rhetoric. So much for family values.


Did you see this on FOX or Newsmax?


It is when this advice is given my medical experts who have diagnosed their patients, unlike conservative idealists who want some Stepford Society that doesn’t care what harm it causes.

Do you think any of those transgender kids might suffer from DID(dissociative identity disorder) where they create an alternative identity in their minds to distance or detach themselves from physical abuse, sexual abuse, trauma, they may have experienced?
 

F1fan

Veteran Member
Do you think any of those transgender kids might suffer from DID(dissociative identity disorder) where they create an alternative indentify in their minds to distance or detach themselves from physical abuse, sexual abuse, trauma, they may have experienced?
That would be for experts to address, not either of us. Do you want members of RF deciding your medical status and needs?
 
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