You may find a little entertainment in this recent learning experience of mine.
So, about 3 years ago I first learned of Brahmanism. For around two years until just last Summer, I was regularly inquiring and sharing opinions regarding Vishnu, Brahma and particularly Shiva.
When I was posting about Lord Shiva on YouTube, a particular individual in the comments repetitively and angrily claimed I was mocking their religion and had no right. I kept referring to Lord Shiva as 'her' and 'she', which is apparently not the case.
You see... On the Final Fantasy video game series, there's a particular Aeon/Summon named Shiva, a scandalously clad blue (cold/ice) female... And so I familiarized myself with Lord Shiva as a female, and have no idea how many people I offended or ****ed off and/or caused to facepalm. Oopsies, we live we learn.