Does anybody see what I am talking about?
It seems to me that you *overthink* too many things Frank...keep it simple....remember that Jesus said we had to be 'like young children' in our approach to spiritual things.....what are the desirable traits of young children that Jesus referred to?
They are meek, teachable, accepting and trusting. They usually have no pre-conceived ideas to fight with new information....they are like sponges. God doesn't say to have that approach with the teachings of men....but with the teachings of God through his word, its a must. The devil is a sower of seeds of doubt.....don't let him plant them in you.
Obey God in all things and you can never go wrong. If you deliberately disobey him, he will abandon you to reap what the devil has sown and you have allowed to take root in your heart.
You have to settle on one faith and accept its teachings. To continue to flit between religious ideas, all you do is confuse yourself and we keep getting the same kinds of questions over and over...it gets tiresome.
If you want answers then accept the ones you are given from the Bible.