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Catholic church cannot bless same-sex unions

Earthtank

Active Member
Acceptance; many people crave it.

Many did not seem to care about "acceptance" when they were told they were committing a sin, seems people want to have their cake and eat it too. If you ignore the fact that it was a sin in the past then, just stop being hypocritical now. Who cares what the catholic church says? Most people will do what they want anyway
 

Altfish

Veteran Member
Many did not seem to care about "acceptance" when they were told they were committing a sin, seems people want to have their cake and eat it too. If you ignore the fact that it was a sin in the past then, just stop being hypocritical now. Who cares what the catholic church says? Most people will do what they want anyway
Like I said at the beginning, the Catholic Church is not in this century.

Homosexuality is not a sin in the modern era.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
The problem is associating sexual promiscuities abomination to gay people "in particular."
Then toss the Bible out the window. Because it does associate sexual immoralities, impurities, and abominations to gay people for being gay.
And I don't do that Christian thing of "well, they can be celibate and not have sex and all those other inhumane expectations." Humans are sexual beings. Gay people are gay, they are homosexuals, and the Bible says to kill them.
Everyone could be straight for all we know.
Then how do I know I have gay friends?
This is any person. My problem isn't what it says in the bible, it's christians interpretation that man sleeps with another man=homosexuality thereby homosexuals are abominations.
Because that is homosexual sex, and the bulk majority of men who have sex with men are homosexuals.
It's not what the bible says that's the problem. It's how christians interpret it.
The Bible clearly says men who have sex with other men are to be killed. That's not a problem of interpretation. It's a problem with looking upon the Bible and calling it Holy, because it is a problem with the Bible. It does say kill homosexuals. It does say kill bisexuals. It says to kill those who act on curiosities. And to make matters worse, Jesus comes along and says you are guilty in your heart just having thoughts about it.
This is very much a problem with what the Bible says.
Christians interpreting it 50 million different ways and forming a myriad denominations is also a problem with the Bible. They can't be faulted for this because the Bible is filled with so many contradictions and inconsistencies that these innumerable schisms are easily and readily made available.
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
Homosexuality is not a sin in the modern era.
It has never been a sin. Sin is nothing more than an artificial concept to bring forth artificial guilt and judgements. Outside of the believer's head, there is no such thing as sin.
 
it is nice how to insult a religion that condemns something

and especially how to twist everything to suit your narration omit or add verses

In general, this is an affliction in God's eyes, isn't it?

I'll tell you the secrets in the unsealed book talk about priests and children as well as homosexuality
for he knew in advance what would happen

happy and merry day to all who will be cooked in hell
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
My whole point is the bible talks about any person involved in sexual promisquity.
We don't know if they are gay, straight, or bi (and you mentioned it doesn't matter)
Therefore, it is much more appropriate to say "any person" who commits same-sex sex is committing a sin. Specifying gay people is highly insulting (the association gay=same-sex sex=sinner). Christians do it all the time. Many gay people don't associate ourselves to sex. The bible is false and I would hope people would correct the error not confirm it.

Then toss the Bible out the window. Because it does associate sexual immoralities, impurities, and abominations to gay people for being gay.
And I don't do that Christian thing of "well, they can be celibate and not have sex and all those other inhumane expectations." Humans are sexual beings. Gay people are gay, they are homosexuals, and the Bible says to kill them.

It doesn't say "gay people." It does not mention who is gay and who is not.

My question: do you believe sexual orientation (such as being gay) is someone who has sex with the same gender?

If so, I get your point; I disagree.
If not, I totally don't know how you're missing what I'm saying.

Then how do I know I have gay friends?

You don't unless they tell you.

Because that is homosexual sex, and the bulk majority of men who have sex with men are homosexuals.

Its an assumption. A generalization. This is something LGBTQ people have been fighting for is assumptions: whether it's their sexual orientation, gender identity (using it as a point), or whatever. The stereotypes by associating sex=sexual orientation needs to end. LGBTQ advocates have been trying to fight this stereotype for ages.

The bible says what it wants but its not referring to sexual orientation (thereby not gay people). It's referring to any person (this is relevant) who has same-sex sex (having sex is a choice and it doesn't depend on one's sexual orientation to make that choice).

But if you can answer my question, I can see why you're associating gay people to same-sex sex.

The Bible clearly says men who have sex with other men are to be killed. That's not a problem of interpretation. It's a problem with looking upon the Bible and calling it Holy, because it is a problem with the Bible. It does say kill homosexuals. It does say kill bisexuals. It says to kill those who act on curiosities. And to make matters worse, Jesus comes along and says you are guilty in your heart just having thoughts about it.

No. It says he will kill anyone committing sexual promiscuity (rape, lust, whatever). It has nothing to do with homosexuality (sexual orientation). It has to do with action (love the sinner; hate the sin). Sin is an action.

This is very much a problem with what the Bible says.
Christians interpreting it 50 million different ways and forming a myriad denominations is also a problem with the Bible. They can't be faulted for this because the Bible is filled with so many contradictions and inconsistencies that these innumerable schisms are easily and readily made available.

But in my opinion, it sounds like you agree with them that men who have same-sex sex are gay thereby they are said to be killed in the bible.

Personally, I find the association ridiculous and misguided (the statement), but christians believe it.... the problem is they are hurting people because of it not just a difference of opinion. (Generalizing christians based on their theology so I don't have to keep saying "some/many/few.")
 
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Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Gay people are gay, they are homosexuals, and the Bible says to kill them.

The bible says kill people (gay/straight/bi) who have same-sex sex not kill people who are attracted to the same gender.

Another thing I thought of. If you're correct, that would mean people are not gay until they have same-sex sex.
 

blü 2

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Funny... we were out with friends tonight. And it came up in conversation about the
sentence, "Me and my missus." Someone hated it. Others hated the 'me and...' part.
We spoke of a time when you had 'rules and enforcers' who told you to put yourself
last. What society do you want to live in, where you are first or where you are second?
What kind of society do you want to live in, where the only topic of moral conversation is the doings in the bedroom, and what are we going to do about it?

Or should we be emphasizing decency, honesty, respect, inclusion, generosity?
 

Shadow Wolf

Certified People sTabber & Business Owner
The bible says kill people (gay/straight/bi) who have same-sex sex not kill people who are attracted to the same gender.

Another thing I thought of. If you're correct, that would mean people are not gay until they have same-sex sex.
If I say the sky is clear and sunny, I'm not explicitly saying the sky is blue but I am implicitly saying it.
If a man lies with a man they are both to be executed. It doesn't explicitly say homosexuals or gays, but it is accurate to say the Bible says to kill gays because homosexual gay males have sex with other males. Not all males who have sex with males are gay, but all gay people have sex with men. Men finding other men attractive is what makes them gay. And the Bible says to kill them because they have sex with other men.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
What kind of society do you want to live in, where the only topic of moral conversation is the doings in the bedroom, and what are we going to do about it?

Or should we be emphasizing decency, honesty, respect, inclusion, generosity?

Just remember, this is the Me Generation.
I don't see too much decency, honesty, respect, inclusion or generosity.

Take a look at some comedies, say, from the 1950's to early 1960's.
Compare that to comedies from say 1990-2020 period.

My profile below isn't my opinion - it's statistics.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
No, sin is not dependent on what you think.

Homosexuality is not a sin ... FACT

When some said no-fault divorce would lead to an epidemic of broken homes
many said such claims were exaggerations and sky-falling hysteria. Today half
of all Western kids come from broken homes. So who was right and how did the
mockers handle the facts? They simply redefined marriage.
And they have re-defined what 'substance abuse' means. And 'living in sin'.
And gambling (sorry, gaming now...) And pornography, etc..

The turning point was the 1960's. Now you can dump your parents in a nursing
home and never see them again - it's not an issue. But hug a tree and you are
a virtuous person.
"Sin" is now whatever people believed in 1900. Virtue is whatever is fashionable
in 2020.
 

blü 2

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Just remember, this is the Me Generation.
I don't see too much decency, honesty, respect, inclusion or generosity.
Have you looked? The great majority of those people whose copulations displease you are decent, honest, respectful, inclusive and generous.
 

PruePhillip

Well-Known Member
Have you looked? The great majority of those people whose copulations displease you are decent, honest, respectful, inclusive and generous.

This isn't about 'copulation' - the '60's 'free love' wasn't about free love but
promiscuity, infidelity, drugs, contempt of authority, attitude towards country,
giving the finger to small America and religious values. We are living with it
today through broken homes, drugs, flight of jobs, welfare trap, debt and
crime.
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
Why should gay people care? They know its a sin in Christianity yet, they get married anyway. Why does what the pope say really matter? They are going to do what they want anyway
The Catholic Church is the official state religion in - if my count is right - 22 countries. It has an inordinate influence on the laws of many others. That's one reason why.

Also, most of these people have been taught since birth things like:

- the fate of their immortal soul depends on staying in the Catholic Church
- the Eucharist (and only the Catholic Church has the "real" Eucharist) is as vital to your "spiritual life" as food is to your physical life.

... so I'm not surprised at all that many people choose not to leave.

Edit: what injustices would you endure if you thought the alternative was starvation?
 

Altfish

Veteran Member
When some said no-fault divorce would lead to an epidemic of broken homes
many said such claims were exaggerations and sky-falling hysteria. Today half
of all Western kids come from broken homes. So who was right and how did the
mockers handle the facts? They simply redefined marriage.
And they have re-defined what 'substance abuse' means. And 'living in sin'.
And gambling (sorry, gaming now...) And pornography, etc..

The turning point was the 1960's. Now you can dump your parents in a nursing
home and never see them again - it's not an issue. But hug a tree and you are
a virtuous person.
"Sin" is now whatever people believed in 1900. Virtue is whatever is fashionable
in 2020.
What is better. A broken home or a non-functioning home with one or both spouses feeling trapped.
I know people from 'broken homes' they are happier than when the stayed in a non-loving marriage. Many now have new partners, divorce can be win-win
 

blü 2

Veteran Member
Premium Member
This isn't about 'copulation' - the '60's 'free love' wasn't about free love but
promiscuity, infidelity, drugs, contempt of authority, attitude towards country,
giving the finger to small America and religious values. We are living with it
today through broken homes, drugs, flight of jobs, welfare trap, debt and
crime.
Of the ten matters you provide stats about, seven are about sex.

So to clear the matter up, what distinction do you draw between "free love" which this, you say, is not about, and "promiscuity, infidelity" which you say it is about.


Of course it's not my part to give you advice, but if it were, I'd advise you to stop listening to right-wing media. Encouraging exaggerated fear is a manipulative technique that Rupert Murdoch has used to line his pocket while wreaking destruction on the free world's politics. Note the word "exaggerate". I do not say such problems don't exist. I say they're perniciously exaggerated.
 
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