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"SOOO" appreciate the tenor of your sharing.
I would like to mention again that this is
a purely subjective position that I hold to. I haven't researched any supportive documentation.
Thank you for sharing, I respectfully disagree on a few things. Based on what I have heard, rarely is an abortion carried out due to inconvenience. The decision itself is very difficult and has many dimensions. I will concede that I am sure there are people in the world who make the snap decision with no moral questioning, but I would guess that is an outlier instead of the norm. (Just a guess, no data here.)
Maybe I should have been a little more communicative in my presentation.
Indeed it is a
highly emotionally stressful moment. I shouldn't have made it so light with a simple word as "inconvenient".
There is a statement that I use that goes this way, "When emotions runs high, intelligence runs low". Getting pregnant is highly emotional and the difficulties it may present are quite real. But responsibilities for one's action is also a factor IMV.
Permit me to elaborate with common occurrences:
- Two people come together and the woman get's pregnant. The male or female determines, "It just isn't the right time and it will stop the plans the we wanted. My education, the desires to get a house first, we haven't had fun-filled life yet, I don't want to deal with the financial responsibilities that come with it (too hard)" and the list can go on. Inconvenience is still the right word though it does make it sound so calloused.
- More emotional: A pregnancy occurs and the male counterpart says "YOU SHOULDN'T HAVE GOTTEN PREGNANT (like it was her fault), I DON'T WANT A BABY, IT IS JUST A FETUS SO GET RID OF IT. IF YOU DON'T I'M LEAVING" Caps done on purpose. He is inconvenienced and doesn't want to take responsibility
I could go on with multiple scenarios, Parental pressure, pier pressure, Planned Parenthood pressure...
Of course there are even more emotional pressures such as rape. It is believed about 5% of rape victims get pregnant. Half of those have the babies and the other half abort.
I also disagree that this would lead to a slippery slope for euthanization of the elderly. (If this is not the argument you were making, please correct me.) I have never heard this argument and I think it would be thrown out on arrival. To question my own assumptions: have you heard this argument proposed? Seems pretty barbaric to me (on that I am pretty sure we agree.
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Yes, I have heard it before.
Certainly euthanasia is on the increase. Most likely, if i quoted it, I would get a litany of "that is a biased position". Certainly if one is on the side of pro-abortion or pro-euthanasia, anything contrary to it would be classified as such.Certainly those who are against both ends would probably be people of faith because of the premium they put on life. You can find an abundance of those who believe so by googling:
connection between abortion and euthanasia
One poster expressed it logically, IMO, this way: "
If abortion is justified (on the grounds that its a life thats not worth living) for the seriously unhealthy when unborn, then why should we not euthanasia the unhealthy later on after birth (on the grounds that its a life thats not worth living- be that voluntarily or involuntarily)"
Interesting perspective, can you expand a bit more? What sort of life decisions? An example or two might help me see this position more clearly.
My esteem for your has had a quantum leap forward. Whether we agree or not at this point is irrelevant. It is the mature exchange of thought without being offensive that impressed me. I thank you! And good question.
IMV, I think it is a mindset that one creates. (Please note... "I think" --- not "it is".
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I found a Psychology title of "
Why You Should Have Never Had Kids (If You Want To Be Happy, That Is)"
It is an "I - Me" mentality. So, since my life is more important that someone else's, then i have rights that I don't care what it does to someone else. I'm sure that in many cases it can be attributed to other reasons too.
We had an event, recently, where we gave out free Christmas gifts. Someone is going to get a better gift than another person but when someone said "FAVORITISM, I'm not getting the good present that I wanted while someone else got a good one. (This is such a trivial example but trying to express it cogently however trivial it may be) It is still a "I/me" viewpoint - no matter who it affects.
Or, in a greater measure, "Dad, mom, I know you are older but you need to work out your own problems of life and living, I have my own life to live".
I have heard this one. Is the idea that the stress and moral questioning will cause friction within the couple? If so, I can see that being a possibility for sure.
That's a good application. Also, "you forced me to give up the child I wanted", or "Post-abortion syndrome" that appears later years,.