leibowde84
Veteran Member
Many times I see people on RF share their beliefs, but when met with criticism, scrutiny, or honest inquiry, they get defensive. As we learn more and more about the cosmos, it is inevitable that some of our deeply held beliefs about the nature of reality will be challenged or even dismissed entirely as silly.
Now, obviously people are free to believe whatever they want. They are also free to refuse to provide explanations or the reasoning behind said beliefs. That being said, if you willingly state your belief on a discussion/debate forum like RF, you should be willing and able to defend/explain those beliefs with a reasoned argument. If it is based on mere subjective experience that is unverifiable, just say that. If it is based on comfort or mental well-being, say that. But, is it OK to refuse to explain, saying "you can believe whatever you want, and I don't have to convince you"? To me, it is disrespectful. Obvious in everyday life, that is a perfectly fine answer, but to willingly participate in a debate forum but refuse to actually defend your position rationally seems to be ridiculous.
For me, I am not here to learn about what others believe. I can pick up a book or read about different religions on my own. On RF, I am most interested in WHY people believe the things they do. Do they scrutinize their own beliefs? If not, why not? Etc.
What are your thoughts?
Now, obviously people are free to believe whatever they want. They are also free to refuse to provide explanations or the reasoning behind said beliefs. That being said, if you willingly state your belief on a discussion/debate forum like RF, you should be willing and able to defend/explain those beliefs with a reasoned argument. If it is based on mere subjective experience that is unverifiable, just say that. If it is based on comfort or mental well-being, say that. But, is it OK to refuse to explain, saying "you can believe whatever you want, and I don't have to convince you"? To me, it is disrespectful. Obvious in everyday life, that is a perfectly fine answer, but to willingly participate in a debate forum but refuse to actually defend your position rationally seems to be ridiculous.
For me, I am not here to learn about what others believe. I can pick up a book or read about different religions on my own. On RF, I am most interested in WHY people believe the things they do. Do they scrutinize their own beliefs? If not, why not? Etc.
What are your thoughts?