As a relatively new christ follower, I haven't had a relationship with someone of the opposite sex since I have been saved. I have always had the wrong kind, ie. living together, sex out of wedlock. Unmeaningful, wasteful, hurtful. I am a church member, I serve at church, I study the bible but I am scared of any new relationship because of temptation, I want to do it right. does anybody else understand?