Like, what you're saying makes sense, except that I think it's easy to underestimate how much deep watching and producing porn gets into a person's mental programming! Especially a teenager's.
Sure, more education about sex is needed, and sure the fact that people watch porn is a
symptom of issues of misogyny and gender binarist thinking and so on, but it is also a massive reinforcer of biases, misconceptions and faulty expectations inandofitself.
Many species of infective bacteria produce a sludge around themselves which protects them from the defensive systems of their host. It's all very well to say 'The sludge is harmless, it's the bacteria we need to get rid of!' when actually the sludge, notwithstanding it's being a consequence of bacterial infection which might well be harmless if it was just floating around your body alone, is one of the key means by which the pathogens keep themselves lodged in the body.
Here bacteria are the underlying attitudes, the sludge is porn, and the body is, I guess, society