I recall when I was a Christian and even as a kid, I never really liked or understood the whole Santa thing. I found it a bit odd and thought it took away from the religious meaning of the holiday by way of overshadowing it. Things like Christmas trees also bothered me and I recall mentioning that to one of our Jewish users on here when I was a Christian.
Are there any Christians here who are also bothered by this? Do you think it's too childish or otherwise takes from the message/meaning?
I think everything about Xmas is hugely flawed and if I never saw another Xmas again in my life, I would be happy.
Christ wasn't born in December so that's the first issue. And then there's the entire consumerism culture that makes me want to scream at people and tell them to wake up. Millions of people spending money they don't have - or could be put to better use - in crap no one needs to somehow tell others that they love them, not with actions, but with a credit card... it's just insane.
Do you miss your family and want to spend time with them? Call them, set up a meeting, lunch, whatever.
Do you want to show someone that you love them? Treat them with love, make sure your actions are all the proof they need of your feelings. No need to use you wallet.
Do you feel the need to decorate your house? Forget about the low quality plastic stuff made in Asia with slave labor. Go get some nice real plants, add a painting from a local artist on the wall, or some pictures that bring you good memories; check the local shops for some cool art made with love by someone that has a story to tell.
Do you want to give something to your child? Give them your time and attention. And if you want to add a toy, buy the toy and tell them it's from you. Make them understand that you work hard to earn the money to pay for that toy and that they should value and cherish that gift. Don't give the credit to some old man that doesn't exist. Take the credit, you deserve it!