Do women enjoy sex?

[Riders]

Well some Christians say no. I say yes! I love sex with men. One post in beliefnet from a Christian said she didn't like looking at male nude body truthfully I use to look at women in porn when I was in my sex addiction.

Women are softer rounder. But however I also enjoy looking at the nude bodies of men. I cant believe some Christian and other religious women think its not natural to be attracted to men and enjoy sex.

I love the male body,I just think men are the most gorgeous creatures on earth. If a man wears a suit or a tux I don't care how fat and slobby or unattractive he is, hell look good. But I havnt had intercourse for 6 years because of my weight,last guy I did it with was a 19 eyar old kid, and it as painful,but he was abusive. Ive had a lot of good sex before.I also like giving head.

WHat do you think is it natural for women to enjoy sex?

 

[FearGod]

Well some Christians say no. I say yes! I love sex with men. One post in beliefnet from a Christian said she didn't like looking at male nude body truthfully I use to look at women in porn when I was in my sex addiction.

Women are softer rounder. But however I also enjoy looking at the nude bodies of men. I cant believe some Christian and other religious women think its not natural to be attracted to men and enjoy sex.

I love the male body,I just think men are the most gorgeous creatures on earth. If a man wears a suit or a tux I don't care how fat and slobby or unattractive he is, hell look good. But I havnt had intercourse for 6 years because of my weight,last guy I did it with was a 19 eyar old kid, and it as painful,but he was abusive. Ive had a lot of good sex before.I also like giving head.

WHat do you think is it natural for women to enjoy sex?

Do you enjoy sex for no reason? i mean with no need for love, similar to animals or
without getting paid for it, just for free fun.

Or do you mean you enjoy sex with your mate (husband), if not then any attractive guy can be your guest.

 

[Riders]

No neither,thats not the point. I'm a recovering sex addict its been 4 months sense Ive had sex with a man so I quit.Im notmarried but I'm sure if I were or if I win a long term relationship I would be. But that's not the point at all. I know I enjoy sex with men, Ive been in long term relationships before where I had sex with someone I was in love with.Its not the point either you are attracted to men and enjoy sex or you don't, relationship status has nothing to do with it.

I'm not having sex these days, but I still get quite abit of pleasure looking at men, not talking about nude male dancers, just regular people, I could go to the grocery store talk to a manager greet him and definitely get pleasure from looking at him dressed in his nice suit.

 

[Riders]

of course it is natural for women to enjoy sex. I as one have a very high sex drive. its only male dominated religions that try to say women dont enjoy sex

I agree with this. My Christian sisters don't know how I can stand giving head to anyone I love it.

 

[Father Heathen]

Of course they enjoy sex. The notion that they don't is beyond bizarre.

 

[Skwim]

of course it is natural for women to enjoy sex. I as one have a very high sex drive. its only male dominated religions that try to say women dont enjoy sex

What are the female dominated religions?

As far as women enjoying sex I can only speak from experience. All those I've been involved with were crazy about it, and with never a hint of embarrassment or hesitation. Even the one who, in the beginning of our relationship, was pretty much committed to only the missionary position in the dark eventually grew to love a surprising variety of well lit sexual activities. God bless her blooming curiosity.

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[NadiaMoon]

What are the female dominated religions?

As far as women enjoying sex I can only speak from experience. All those I've been involved with were crazy about it, and with never a hint of embarrassment or hesitation. Even the one who, in the beginning of our relationship, was pretty much committed to only the missionary position in the dark eventually grew to love a surprising variety of well lit sexual activities. God bless her blooming curiosity.

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Filianism and Deanism are female dominated religions, But i was meaning just the 3 Abrahamic religions that demonize sex

 

[Deidre]

Yes.

 

[Sunstone]

The clitoris is the only organ in nature dedicated to no other purpose but pleasure. It happens to be found on the female body somewhere, although at my age, it's hard to recall just where. But I know it's there somewhere. I remember tasting one when I was a much younger man. Or was that tasting nine of them? I can't recall nowadays: It was dark and there were thirty other people in the room....

 

[metis]

Under Jewish Law, a man has an obligation to make his wife sexually satisfied, and the ideal time for making love is during Shabbat.

 

[VioletVortex]

Women are generally focused more on the emotional element of sex, where as men typically feel that the physical element is more important.

Most women don't get much emotional satisfaction out of one night stands; they want a boyfriend to cater to them consistently. Women usually enjoy passionate sex that takes longer, because they take longer to reach orgasm.

 

[Sunstone]

Do you enjoy sex for no reason? i mean with no need for love, similar to animals or without getting paid for it, just for free fun.

Or do you mean you enjoy sex with your mate (husband), if not then any attractive guy can be your guest.

When I was growing up in the 1960s, there was a widely accepted myth in my community that women did not enjoy sex just for fun, and even actively disliked it, but only consented to it in order to please the man they were in love with. This myth -- which in my early youth I believed -- caused me immense guilt because it meant that when I wanted to have sex with a woman, I was wanting to do something she'd prefer I didn't do. The guilt was crushing at times.

Thankfully, the culture changed and the myth was revealed to be the hogwash it always had been. But your post just now reminded me of that myth.

 

[Sunstone]

In my admittedly limited experience, what women get out of sex varies from one woman to another. It also varies in the same woman from one partner to another, and from one age to another age. And I have known women for whom it varies depending upon what stage of their monthly cycle they are in. Not to mention how what a woman gets out of sex varies with what happened at the office that day, etc. So, I am downright suspicious of sweeping generalizations about whether and what women get out of sex, just as I am suspicious of sweeping generalizations about whether and what a man gets out of sex.

 

[beenherebeforeagain]

Based on my experience:

Not all women enjoyed it. But of course, that was sex with me. They may well have enjoyed sex with other people. One of them said something to that effect. At least one.
Some seemed okay with it, enjoying it at least once in awhile. I married one of them. Later divorced, for only tangentially-related reasons.
Some of them really enjoyed it; again, that was with me. I finally got to marry one of them.

 

[FearGod]

In my admittedly limited experience, what women get out of sex varies from one woman to another. It also varies in the same woman from one partner to another, and from one age to another age. And I have known women for whom it varies depending upon what stage of their monthly cycle they are in. Not to mention how what a woman gets out of sex varies with what happened at the office that day, etc. So, I am downright suspicious of sweeping generalizations about whether and what women get out of sex, just as I am suspicious of sweeping generalizations about whether and what a man gets out of sex.

Do you have sex with women aside from your wife and is it OK for you if your wife
feel the same to enjoy sex with any men aside from you?

 

[Sunstone]

Do you have sex with women aside from your wife and is it OK for you if your wife
feel the same to enjoy sex with any men aside from you?

I'm not married, and I'm not looking for marriage or any relationship at the moment, but FearGod, if I were ever to get back into a relationship, it would need to be an open one. An open relationship is one in which both partners are free to have sex with someone else. Anything less than that would kill me inside. I would feel stifled to death. But that's just me. I recognize that some people are monogamous.

 

[Neo Deist]

I asked my wife this a while back. Her reply was "yes," but it depends on who it is with, how they do it, and of course the size of his penis. She gave me a little wink after the latter. So I said, "size does matter?" and she simply laughed. Not wanting to be left out in the cold, I asked for her explanation. She stated that if there was not enough size to stimulate, then there's not really much that she gets out of it. I looked at her. She looked at me. Finally she said what I was wondering..."yes honey, you have plenty of size to stimulate with. More than most! Why do you think I have to push back on you sometimes? You go too deep."

Oh yeah.

 

[Sunstone]

Based on my experience:

Not all women enjoyed it. But of course, that was sex with me. They may well have enjoyed sex with other people. One of them said something to that effect. At least one.
Some seemed okay with it, enjoying it at least once in awhile. I married one of them. Later divorced, for only tangentially-related reasons.
Some of them really enjoyed it; again, that was with me. I finally got to marry one of them.

Kudos for what seems to me a totally honest post! Besides the variations you've mentioned, there has been (at least for me) the occasional woman who enjoys sex with me, but perhaps no more than she enjoys masturbation. That is, she likes it, but not passionately. And there have also been the responses you've mentioned, too. So, there's been a whole range of responses. But then, I've had a full range of responses to my partners, too.

 

[beenherebeforeagain]

Kudos for what seems to me a totally honest post! Besides the variations you've mentioned, there has been (at least for me) the occasional woman who enjoys sex with me, but perhaps no more than she enjoys masturbation. That is, she likes it, but not passionately.

Thanks!
That kind falls into my second category...
And yeah, there hasn't necessarily been a correlation between my enjoyment and the apparent enjoyment of my partners...

 

[Sunstone]

And yeah, there hasn't necessarily been a correlation between my enjoyment and the apparent enjoyment of my partners...

Isn't that interesting though! I think there might be a slight correlation, but I would have expected there to be a much stronger one than there has. Another life mystery!