michel said:
Anyway, the basis of this polled thread is "Do you accept all the teachings of the Church to which you belong ?",or are there 'bits' you don't quite think are right, but you can cope with those differences?
I actually voted for "Aw heck, the basic principles are right. I'm not bothered about the rest." But, since I did, I want to explain why I didn't vote for "Yes, I can honestly say I am 100% in accord."
In my Church there are "doctrines," which are the Church's essential teachings. They are not only absolute, they are constant. We believe them to have been in effect from the beginning of time. This would include our teachings on the nature of God, our relationship to God, the pre-existence of our spirits, the relationship between salvation by grace through faith alone vs salvation by grace through faith and works combined, the need for the saving ordinances (such as baptism, temple endowments, eternal marriage, etc.), the post-mortal Spirit World, the three Degrees of Glory in Heaven and our potential for Eternal Progression. There are also "policies," which are established by the First Presidency of the Church (the Prophet and his two counselors and the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles). This would include such things as whether or not it is considered wrong to watch R-rated movies and at what age teenagers should start single-dating. What kind of dress is appropriate for Church attendance. These policies change from time to time. Our leaders are most often quite clear as to what they expect of us in these areas, but there are no consequences for disobedience or repercussions for having a difference of opinion.
When it comes to my Church's doctrines, I can honestly say I am 100% in accord. When it comes to some of our policies, I'm not. I see R-rated movies and do so with a clear conscience. Under a given set of circumstances, I would have allowed my daughter to go on a date at age 15 1/2 instead of waiting until the prescribed age of 16. Some members of the Church might think that I am wrong in my decisions, but it doesn't affect my standing in the Church. I just grew up in a more liberal family and a lot of it rubbed off on me. Someday, I may have to pay the consequences for not always having followed the counsel of my Church's leaders, but for now, I feel fine with my decisions and am considered to be a good, strong member of the Church.
Kathryn