Nope, that is not what I am saying. I am only saying that God is not responsible for the 'freely chosen' moral choices of humans.
I am saying that God is not responsible to 'alter' human choices such that humans won't do bad or evil things like rape and murder.
Everything else that happens that was not caused by human choices and actions, things like diseases, accidents and injuries, including things that happen to us owing to a free will choice of other people can be considered our fate.
“Some things are subject to the free will of man, such as justice, equity, tyranny and injustice, in other words, good and evil actions; it is evident and clear that these actions are, for the most part, left to the will of man. But there are certain things to which man is forced and compelled, such as sleep, death, sickness, decline of power, injuries and misfortunes; these are not subject to the will of man, and he is not responsible for them, for he is compelled to endure them. But in the choice of good and bad actions he is free, and he commits them according to his own will.”
Some Answered Questions, p. 248
Man is compelled to endure the Bad things that happen because God set it up that way since we live in a material world where some of the Bad things happen are beyond our control. Some of these Bad things are caused by the free will decisions of other people and some of them are simply accidents, misfortunes and diseases. These are our destiny, our fate, for which God is responsible.
I am not saying that God is only responsible for the Good things that happen to us. God is responsible for the Bad things that happen as well,
if these things were not freely chosen by humans.
Isaiah 45:7
ESV I form light and create darkness; I make well-being and create calamity; I am the Lord, who does all these things.
TLB I form the light and make the dark. I send good times and bad. I, Jehovah, am he who does these things.
NASB The One forming light and creating darkness, Causing well-being and creating disaster; I am the Lord who does all these things.
NCV I made the light and the darkness. I bring peace, and I cause troubles. I, the Lord, do all these things.
NIRV I cause light to shine. I also create darkness. I bring good times. I also create hard times. I do all these things. I am the Lord.
NIV I form the light and create darkness, I bring prosperity and create disaster; I, the Lord, do all these things.