Control = trying to cause people to reject their faith.
We need to think about where we are, and how much power any of us has to control anyone. It's a discussion forum.
Anyone thinking of joining can browse the threads and if they don't like what they see they can leave it at that.
Anyone who does join and contribute should have accepted that there will be some disagreement with their personal beliefs. A moderately thick skin is probably a requirement, if you don't want to be offended.
RF is not the whole world. Anyone who feels his or her faith slipping can go to their church, atheist group or whatever and have it bolstered.
At any time, anyone can either ignore a thread or a person or even not come here any more.
If you came here to try to change anyone's mind, it's probably a fool's errand. (Believers and non believers both). Have fun trying though!
So, if you are not enjoying yourself in what is essentially a friendly place, move on. No shame in that.