muhammad_isa
Veteran Member
Yes...Let me give you a scenario. Let me know who you think is doing wrong and why.
A man and his wife are at home one evening. He says he would like to have sex and she says that she doesn't feel like it that night. He gets angry and pins her down and forces her to have sex.
1. Did he mistreat her?
No, not as you have written it. I don't know how long this has been going on for,2. Did she mistreat him?
or why "she doesn't feel like it".
Possibly .. but first of all, she should go to family members, and tell them what has happened.3. Is this something the law should be concerned about?
More details are needed.
Why did this man suddenly snap, and do that?
G-d knows .. more details are needed.4. Did either of them disrespect the marriage? If so, who?
On the face of it, it seems barbaric.Now, compare this to the following scenario:
Two people who have known each other as friends decide to spend the night together. They talk about what each would like and how it would affect their relationship and decide to have sex. Both enjoyed themselves.
Can you honestly say that the second couple should be put to death... ... ...
The problem is, that sexual relationships cause trouble, as it is irresponsible to enter a woman and walk away.
..like babies being conceived out of wedlock .. and irate boyfriends and girlfriends etc.
It looks OK on the face of it, whilst murder doesn't.
Nobody wants to live in a society where people go around murdering each other,
..but it is a slippery slope .. such a society gets more violent as time goes by.