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But you do it anyway?Some of us who are religious are also puzzled by the process of choosing what to believe and then believing it.
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But you do it anyway?Some of us who are religious are also puzzled by the process of choosing what to believe and then believing it.
I don't always believe it, only when I choose to.But you do it anyway?
No, I think they do it because they really believe it, and they do not give a damn how much those words hurt other people, because their beliefs matter to them MORE than anything else.Trailblazer said: ↑
then they say **** like like "God is sending you tests for your own benefit", or "suffering is to make us stronger"
... is horrible, I noticed that, too.
You said: Some people use it as a finisher for debate, it seems to me.
I don't believe I used the word "better". I was merely pointing out that our life experiences will shape how we read scripture. I see unconditional love much more easily, because I recognize what that looks like in personal experience growing up with my parents. But beyond just that, I actually have experiences of the Divine, and the sorts of "cast you into hell" stuff, is completely outside and foreign to my experiences. I think that does give a certain 'advantage', having actually been to the destination, rather than looking at it on a map.I merely refuted your claim that those who made good experiences in their lives had a better knowledge about scripture than those who don't.
You don't have to answer anything personal, but it would be interesting to see if it is consistent with what I have observed, which I've mentioned above. If nothing else, what I'm saying is food for thought.an answer would take it to the personal level. This thread is not about Thomas T as you may have noticed
I suppose they are more or less the same when it comes to compassion.With some notable exceptions, I am sorry to say that atheists have far more compassion than believers, probably because they are not mired in beliefs.
whether this is an advantage or not may be subject to speculation.Of course though, it is completely understandable that those who grew up not seeing unconditional love with someone in their lives, will have a hard time understanding what that looks like.
well, as I said, this depends on how you interact with God, I think.The God of unconditional Love who is constantly forgiving you
You sure love to use words like speculation, theory, and opinion to downplay the views of others. Again, that applies more to the person without experience than it does to the one with experience. A person who has traveled to the mountains, breathed its air, stood upon its slopes, taken in its beauty, is not speculating about the reality of mountains. But the person who has only read about them, studied them on maps, and making proclamations of truth about them from that vantage point, is decidedly less informed than the person who has been to or lives in the mountains.whether this is an advantage or not may be subject to speculation.
Again with your unfounded dismissive language. You can say that all you want, but it applies much more to the person who only theories about the Divine, versus the person who has drunk from the Divine. In reality here, the one speculating is you. The fact that you keep falling back to that hackneyed response, indicates a lack of substantive response. It betrays the weakness of your position.As I said, "unconditional love" is a terminology that cannot be found in the Bible. It is speculation to say that God has unconditional love for everyone, here I stay with my opinion.
It is in scripture. The words we use to describe what we see in scripture, do not need to be stated in those words in scripture, in order for them to be valid. If for instance, you believe in the Trinity, that word doesn't exist in scripture, but to many who read scripture, they see that is what is being taught. In fact, the word Bible, is not in the Bible, yet you proclaim it as the absolute authority supporting your opinions.But if it's not there in the Bible, the whole concept of "unconditional love" is not important for scripture anyway.
It is taught in scripture, and Jesus primarily taught this. I have given examples of this. That you can't see it, is likely due to the colorized lenses you are looking at it though, blocking its wavelength from reaching your eyes. To me, you're clearly not looking at it through the lense of absolute Love, which is the being of God, according to scripture - and personal firsthand experience.If it would have been of importance, Jesus would have let people know about it! It may be a nice concept but remain just that: nice.
Be careful here. You're making an argument that will support my views. There is a lot of Truth about the Divine, that is far more expansive and open and expressive, than only that which is in the Bible. We find God with the heart, with the soul, in lived experience, not with the intellect and opinions about scripture.Not every nice thing is found in the Bible.
Well, sure, from God's perspective, we're all mistaken and are loved by him, even if we aren't "right" about what we are interpreting from scripture. That supports what I have been saying all along. We are all forgiven, and that "by their fruits you shall know them," those who follow that Light, even in they are mistaken in their ideas about God. Same for you. Same for me. Jesus did not, once ever teach, "By their correct beliefs you shall know them".As a matter of fact, those who had a bad childhood don't suffer from a limited understanding any more than those who had a good childhood, Romans 2:11. God is no respecter of persons, I think, he shares out understanding of His scriptures in a way that nobody gets discriminated against.
I have no issues with that verse, in fact repentance is a prerequisite to being open to God. Stubbornness in views and beliefs and opinions, are a sure block to the Divine. All that comes from the ego.well, as I said, this depends on how you interact with God, I think.
Mark 1:4 gives an example of that.
I know it is not good to generalize about any group of people, but sadly this has been my experience.I suppose they are more or less the same when it comes to compassion.
In my opinion, it's like this: in Christian churches much is going on.
On the one hand, you have churches that care for the refugees, have great missionary projects, help children from poor families and so on.
On the other, there the churches that don't have any of this but try to get rid of people in trouble instead. Which is contrary to what Bible teaches, unfortunately.
If you happened to meet people from the second group of churches it's understandable that you talk like this, I think. Unfortunately.
Actually, you couldn't provide examples of "unconditional love" in the Bible.It is taught in scripture, and Jesus primarily taught this. I have given examples of this.
I don't resort to projection here in simply pointing out that Bible alone is the standard for the rules in Christianity.We find God with the heart, with the soul, in lived experience, not with the intellect and opinions about scripture.
Making it only about what you interpret from scripture, pushes the living Presence of the Divine into a corner. It makes it a projection of your own ego and insecurities. IMO, doing that is a form of avoiding God.
I stay with my opinion: if a concept is spiritually important, Jesus would have claimed so in His Bible, of course.There is a lot of Truth about the Divine, that is far more expansive and open and expressive, than only that which is in the Bible.
I didn't claim otherwise.Jesus did not, once ever teach, "By their correct beliefs you shall know them".
I didn't claim so.Well, sure, from God's perspective, we're all mistaken and are loved by him, even if we aren't "right" about what we are interpreting from scripture.
I fully agree. Even if God loves everyone, why should God show His love in an unconditional manner?Even if God is love, that doesn't mean He shows His love to everyone in an unconditional manner.
Do you believe that is what I have said? I don't believe that either. However, to claim, "I read it right there on the pages, it's right there, and it means this", is not 100% objective or factual either. Will you agree with this?I disagree that Bible interpretation is a 100% subjective endeavor.
I have already. "God is Love". That has no conditions set upon it. It is the nature of the Divine itself, as Love, Absolute, and Infinite. To say that has conditions, denies what John wrote. I agree with what he wrote, BTW.Actually, you couldn't provide examples of "unconditional love" in the Bible.
Which goes to show, without a similar context, you can't see the same things. I said before, completely setting God and the Bible aside, just talking about parents who are unconditionally loving to someone who grew up where love was a conditional affair, they will likely see unconditional love as a fantasy, a non-reality, and try to tell the person who experienced that that they are delusional, in order to disregard what the other person is saying. Such as you saying what I say, is my "theory, speculation, assumptions, opinion," and such.You made the claim that you did in #97 already, but I already wrote in # 109: your verses did not show that God's forgiveness is unconditional. Neither the Prodigal Son nor "Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. [...]" nor "Father forgive them, for they know not what they do" as put in its right context.... mirrors unconditional forgiveness, as shown in my previous responses.
These were the only 3 scripture verses you cited to bolster your stance of unconditional forgiveness.
... so this is going round in circles now.
Please let me focus a little more on this, because I don't think you picked up on what I have been saying. God's Love, is absolutely Pure and unconditioned. That Love is shown to the whole world, every single second of every single day, and all moments in between. However, our inabilities to allow that to come into our personal lives is a matter of our willingness to accept it. It is not withheld by God, it is denied by us. God does not parcel out more love here and less love there, like may have been the experience of some human children with their human parents.Even if God is love, that doesn't mean He shows His love to everyone in an unconditional manner.
Do we need to do something to get God to love us? Does God love us more when we're good, and less when we're bad? I'd like your opinion on this.I don't resort to superimposing conditions for God sharing His love, I think. I cite scripture. That's all.
Nowhere is that taught in scripture. That was a much later understanding of the role of scripture in the Protest revolution that arose in the 1600s. Nowhere does it teach in scripture that the only way to know God, is by reading the Bible.I don't resort to projection here in simply pointing out that Bible alone is the standard for the rules in Christianity.
The rules as you are interpreting through the filters through which you read it. Those are not absolute. And when we insist that our understanding of scripture is absolute, which you sure seem like you are doing, that most definitely is avoiding God. It place ego before God, hiding it behind absolutist language about scripture.Anyway, referring to scripture alone never avoids God. Scripture comes from God. The rules are laid out in scripture.
"Jesus did many other things as well. If every one of them were written down, I suppose that even the whole world would not have room for the books that would be written." That absolutely leaves room beyond just what is in the Bible. As I said, to limit it to only those texts, is absolutely to limit God. It avoids God, actually, hiding behind absolutist opinions.I stay with my opinion: if a concept is spiritually important, Jesus would have claimed so in His Bible, of course.
I don't claim my understanding of scripture is "Right", in some absolutist sense. But I will say this, it has changed and deepened over the years, as personal experience has illuminated it. Spiritual maturation, does have a way in changing how we think about what scripture teaches.Even if you claim to "have drunk from the Divine" having "first hand experience" with God.... I doubt that your Bible understanding is in any way superior to or more advanced than mine is.
Of course you do. We all have that problem, which is why we need to seek spiritual illumination, not just better academics. We need to set aside our assumptions, and allow Spirit to illuminate our minds and our understandings of scripture, and life, and the world.I don't block scripture truth from reaching my eyes.
I guess that is why there is so much suffering in the world. Maybe watching people suffer is how God shows His love.God's Love, is absolutely Pure and unconditioned. That Love is shown to the whole world, every single second of every single day, and all moments in between.
Of course not. The sun shines on every village, but those that hide indoors and never venture out get to see it. It's up to us to make the world better, by "listening" to God in our hearts. We participate in this world. We're not merely inhabitants ruled from afar by an absentee landlord.I guess that is why there is so much suffering in the world. Maybe watching people suffer is how God shows His love.
God is love even in our suffering, even when we can't see it, or avail ourselves of it. I think it's helpful to not think of God as something that will fix things for you, but rather empower you to bring forth the Divine into the world to make if a better, less awful experience for everyone alive. I believe in a participatory kingdom, not one where God does it for you, and smashes with force those who don't conform. That's not love, in my understanding of the word.But of course it is easy to say God is love if you are not the one suffering.
And of course it is easy to blame the people who are suffering because they don't feel God's love.
Those are your beliefs about God, they are not facts because you cannot prove them. You are welcome to have your beliefs just as we all are. I do not share those beliefs because I am a separate person with a different experience and I have a different way of processing what I see in the world.Of course not. The sun shines on every village, but those that hide indoors and never venture out get to see it. It's up to us to make the world better, by "listening" to God in our hearts. We participate in this world. We're not merely inhabitants ruled from afar by an absentee landlord.
God is love even in our suffering, even when we can't see it, or avail ourselves of it. I think it's helpful to not think of God as something that will fix things for you, but rather empower you to bring forth the Divine into the world to make if a better, less awful experience for everyone alive. I believe in a participatory kingdom, not one where God does it for you, and smashes with force those who don't conform. That's not love, in my understanding of the word.
Maybe think of it like oxygen. If you aren't able to breathe it, your body will suffer and you become ill and eventually die. You suffocate without God, more or less.
The rules as you are interpreting through the filters through which you read it. Those are not absolute.
I don't say that God has conditions. Also, God lets his sun shine equally on everyone.I have already. "God is Love".
I said before, completely setting God and the Bible aside, just talking about parents who are unconditionally loving to someone who grew up where love was a conditional affair, they will likely see unconditional love as a fantasy, a non-reality, and try to tell the person who experienced that that they are delusional, in order to disregard what the other person is saying.
this wasn't what I said. I acknowledge that there can be dreams and visions.Nowhere does it teach in scripture that the only way to know God, is by reading the Bible.
Are you trying to reduce God to a provable equation of science? To be clear, these are my experiences of God, and my beliefs surrounding those experiences are flexible, but never denying of the core truth of the experience. God is love, is not open to God is hate, because nothing in my experience would support that belief.Those are your beliefs about God, they are not facts because you cannot prove them.
But it does mean that God is not hate. God is not darkness, and God is not death. Of course God is not just that one thing. I've never suggested that. But God is Love, means, God is Love, not hate.Even if God is love, that does not mean God is nothing else. That is illogical.
So my friendly suggestion to you to maybe try thinking less of God as potentate who pulls all the strings, and should be blamed for the suffering in the world, to thinking of God more in terms of a Wellspring of Life that we can draw from to improve our spiritual and social health, fell completely flat for you for some reason? May I ask why? In your mind, God should fix it for you?Baha'is would agree with you that God is love in spite of the suffering in the world, but I am different from most Baha'is.
I was not referring to proving God exists, I was referring to attaching attributes to God, as if we can know what God is like. I dislike it when Baha'is do that too. Why can't we just accept that God is God and God is unknowable? Why do we have to say God is loving, merciful and just? I think people do that because they want to believe it. I know you have had your personal experiences and that is your own business, and proof only to you.Are you trying to reduce God to a provable equation of science? To be clear, these are my experiences of God, and my beliefs surrounding those experiences are flexible, but never denying of the core truth of the experience. God is love, is not open to God is hate, because nothing in my experience would support that belief.
I do not know why. I have always struggled with God being "All-Loving." I have made a lot of progress lately in that I do not hate God anymore, but I would not say I love Him either. I have no reason to love God other than it says I am supposed to in scriptures.I'm a little surprised by your response here.
Okay, I am glad we got that straightened out.But it does mean that God is not hate. God is not darkness, and God is not death. Of course God is not just that one thing. I've never suggested that. But God is Love, means, God is Love, not hate.
I do not blame God for causing suffering but God created a world in which He knew that humans and animals would suffer and die, and all suffering cannot be ameliorated. God is the Creator and that is why I hold God responsible. No, I do not expect God to fix anything for me, there is no fix. Life just is and it is much more difficult for some people than for others, usually through no fault of their own. What I see is inequity. As a Baha'i I believe the social and economic inequity will eventually be eliminated but that is not what I am referring to. I am referring to what we are born with and what happens after that which is outside of our control.So my friendly suggestion to you to maybe try thinking less of God as potentate who pulls all the strings, and should be blamed for the suffering in the world, to thinking of God more in terms of a Wellspring of Life that we can draw from to improve our spiritual and social health, fell completely flat for you for some reason? May I ask why? In your mind, God should fix it for you?
You are correct because it is true that people do not generally change their religious beliefs, and that is the primary reason there are not more Baha’is, since 84 percent of the world population has a faith and only about .12% of the world population are Baha’is.No that is was not what I meant with what I wrote, it's not about taking sides. Simply that people change their view based on what they believe to be true and that these views are not compatible. A muslim is not going to accept Baha'u'llah, simply because that is not what they believe. So their views on this will be vastly different than yours due to that fact.
I do not know what you expect to have as evidence. Maybe you are looking for a kind of evidence that simply does not exist.For me personally, I don't care who is who or which believe what. I care about evidence and proves and so far none of them have done any better than the others in my opinion.
But what other evidence of God would you expect to have? If a message from God did not come to you in written form, how would you get it?Following from the last, and I completely agree with you on this, except I take it one step further, meaning I can't believe in a God just because it is written in scriptures.
That is correct, it does all boil down to which religion is right, but the Baha’i Faith is the only religion that can be right and still accommodate the fact that all religions are true, even though their messages and social teachings and laws are outdated.But since you do believe in one, and so many other people believe in a different version of this God, which do not forgive these things according to their scriptures, it simply becomes a matter of who is right, assuming that God exist in the first place? If their version is correct, you have little to no hope of forgiveness, but if you are right, you probably won't have any issues.
I suppose that is a possibility that there is no God, because nobody can prove God exists like a fact, but what are the chances that 93% of the people in the world who believe in God are all wrong and only the 7% of atheists are right? I am not saying that just because many people believe in God, God must exist, because that would be committing the fallacy of argumentum ad populum, but when it comes to something as important as God, I think it is wise to ask why so many people would believe in a God that does not exist. Moreover, since God is related to the purpose of our existence, it is very important to know of God exists and what God’s will is for us. This is simply logical.The atheists view is to simply say, that what if you are wrong about a God all together, which would mean that you are wasting your only life seeking something that doesn't exist and letting that control your life?
And that does not worry you that you could be wrong about something as important as God? You still have time to think about it because it is not over till the curtain call comes, but you might be missing out in valuable opportunity to know about God and what God’s will is for you, which will be what will make a huge difference when you enter the spiritual realm. And there are no guarantees that you will be able to acquire what you could have acquired in this life after you die, because you won’t have free will as you do here.And don't get me wrong, all atheists would probably agree, that if we are wrong there is probably not a bright future waiting us.
Maybe that is the end goal for Christians, but that is not then end goal for Baha’is. In fact, we are not even supposed to do what we do to get saved.Yes, but ultimately, since they hold the bible true, It is about salvation from this life into the next one. Whether or not Jesus is with them to guide them on this trip or not, doesn't really change that. If you think about it, assuming you are a Christian and you live a good and decent life, when you then finally die you end up no better off, than an atheist or one of wrong faith. Then the bible is rather pointless and could be reduced to a single line "Be a good person and you will be saved by God" I think most people even Christians would feel slightly mislead to be honest, taking in account the amount of suffering religion have caused people throughout history.
So ultimately the end goal is to be saved and be better off than those that chose wrong.
Please do not use me as a representative example of a Baha’i and what they do because I tend towards austerity by choice, since I take what Baha’u’llah wrote about not being attached to the world very seriously. Maybe that’s good, or maybe not, but that is just the way I am. Here is what Baha’u’llah said about the world, one passage of many.I think that is one of the flaws about religions and what they teach people. Does enjoying this life make you are worse Bahai? I don't mean you should ruin the lives of others in achieving this, but I fail to see how this is connected? Because following that logic, if you gave away all your money and went to live on the street in a cardbox, then you would be a perfect Bahai or what?
I can understand these saying from a general point of view or as an overall idea. But they really don't make a whole lot of sense. The first one we can ignore, if you don't believe in God then you don't believe in him.
Well, since I do not believe we are born as sinners I do not consider that an excuse for any of our behaviors. I do believe we have the propensity to sin because we have a lower animal nature, but we also have a higher spiritual nature so we can choose to follow that nature, since we have free will.The second one to "love thy neighbour...", is just not a reflection of reality as much as it is just a nice saying. Because not even Christians live by it, take the amount of priests that have been busted for exploiting kids or whatever people do and then call themself religious and true believers. And to fix or excuse it, we get the bull**** that we are all born sinners. It's just one excuse after another, rather than accepting that these issues exist in the world and then we figure out, how do we best solve them.
You are preaching to the choir, Nimos. I fully agree that being praying and believing that is going to change anything so that is not the answer. People need to change themselves and thereby change the world, but in order to do that they need to look at their faults and correct them. We also need to have solutions to the world’s spiritual, social and economic problems, and that is where the Writings of Baha’u’llah come in. He revealed what we need to change ourselves and the world and we have to figure out how to apply these teachings.To me most religions is about throwing away responsibility or not wanting to look at the "bad" things. We don't solve these issues by praying or reminding people that they need to be better. It hasn't worked for the last 1000s of years, it should be enough evidence that it is never going to work. Just want to point out that luckily a majority of religious people can figure out that more is needed. But still this is basically what religious nonsense keep reminding people that the solution is.
Get real. Christians cannot be right if God is just and good, and if God is not just and good why would anyone even want to believe in God? I say they cannot be right because NO just God who is good would exclude 71% of the human population from heaven, paradise, or whatever you want to call it, including the 24% of people who are Muslims and the 15% of people who are Hindus. But it is not only the Christians who believe they are the only true religion, all the religious believers believe that except the Baha’is, who believe that all religions are true and they are all one religion which is continually unfolding throughout the ages.Yes but in the end all that matters is who is right?
If you are wrong, and Christians that believe in hell is right you are going there to. I think it's great that the Bahai doesn't teach people about hell at least, because I would assume that people truly believing in this must be scared almost constantly.