Every day...

[Sunstone]

Every day, my upstairs neighbor (who is from hell, I'm sure of it) gets on her phone and cusses someone out. She cusses them out loud enough that every day I can hear her cussing them out. It hardly goes without saying that this is annoying. I find it a little strange that she has someone to cuss out every day, every single day.

Do you have some "special person" in your life who does something repeatedly every day...something you loathe?

How about some genuinely special person in your life who every day does something really wonderful...something you love?

 

[No*s]

Every day, my upstairs neighbor (who is from hell, I'm sure of it) gets on her phone and cusses someone out. She cusses them out loud enough that every day I can hear her cussing them out. It hardly goes without saying that this is annoying. I find it a little strange that she has someone to cuss out every day, every single day.

Do you have some "special person" in your life who does something repeatedly every day...something you loathe?

How about some genuinely special person in your life who every day does something really wonderful...something you love?

No...I don't have anyone I absolutely loathe, and I don't have a special person I see everyday that simply makes my day. I do play go/chess once or twice a week with a friend, and I look forward to that escape (lately we haven't been playing lol).

 

[SK2005]

I have(had) a person like that. He is around every single day but now, I feel so far away from him.

 

[Sunstone]

I have(had) a person like that. He is around every single day but now, I feel so far away from him.

That sounds very sad, Susan. Why do you feel so far away from him now?

 

[Feathers in Hair]

I have the same type of delightful upstairs neighbors. (I've mentioned them before.) They communicate in cursing and shout stuff at their children I would consider child abuse. (For something else, we'd reported them to DHS, but the Cedar Rapids system is horribly overrun, due to an influx of people from Chicago who were told by their social workers to move here. Some of the people were even given bus tickets by the workers. I feel nothing but sympathy for them, but think it was rather unethical of the Chicago workers to do that.)

And I'd say that the majority of the special people in my life are on this forum, and they do something I love by simply being here and sharing their opinions and thoughts. There's my mom, too, who is willing to listen to me ramble on about my day and usually makes me generally feel better about my life.

 

[SK2005]

That sounds very sad, Susan. Why do you feel so far away from him now?

Well, I'm at school right now, and my soul mate of a year and a half broke up with me a couple weeks ago, and now I feel so lonely. I see him all the time and I watch as he touches, hugs, and flirts with other girls and it makes me upset. (like I am right now.) Will still talk every once in a while and I know that he still loves me but it is so hard to see him doing all the things that he does. And I have no friends at my school. I am just so lonely...

 

[Lightkeeper]

Well, I'm at school right now, and my soul mate of a year and a half broke up with me a couple weeks ago, and now I feel so lonely. I see him all the time and I watch as he touches, hugs, and flirts with other girls and it makes me upset. (like I am right now.) Will still talk every once in a while and I know that he still loves me but it is so hard to see him doing all the things that he does. And I have no friends at my school. I am just so lonely...

You have us and we are here any time you need us. We will be holding you in our thoughts and hope you will find some friends at school. Hang in there.

 

[SK2005]

You have us and we are here any time you need us. We will be holding you in our thoughts and hope you will find some friends at school. Hang in there.

Thank you...

 

[Lightkeeper]

I have downstairs neighbors who smoke and I can't keep my windows open in the summer heat. She also does nails and that smells. She also uses a lot of garlic. I may have to start wearing a mask. They are reasonably quiet except for an occasional slamming door.

 

[Sunstone]

That's got to be tough, Susan. It's something most of us go through at one time or another and so, even though it might not seem so, things will get better. My heart goes out to you.

 

[No*s]

Well, I'm at school right now, and my soul mate of a year and a half broke up with me a couple weeks ago, and now I feel so lonely. I see him all the time and I watch as he touches, hugs, and flirts with other girls and it makes me upset. (like I am right now.) Will still talk every once in a while and I know that he still loves me but it is so hard to see him doing all the things that he does. And I have no friends at my school. I am just so lonely...

Susan,

I firmly wish you the best. I don't know what else to say, other than you do have us here online...

 

[Scuba Pete]

You OTHER than No*s???

It's not the SAME person, but I hate smoke. So why do these cretins feel the need to smoke RIGHT BY THE ENTRANCE? Go smoke by the dumpsters, where we can't smell you!

Susan,

I agree with No*s! We are here for you and you WILL make new friends. It just takes time and patience.

 

[SK2005]

That's why I am so ready to graduate and go to college because I can meet new people and make new friends, and of course I know that I have all of you here! Thank you

 

[Fluffy]

Well, I'm at school right now, and my soul mate of a year and a half broke up with me a couple weeks ago, and now I feel so lonely. I see him all the time and I watch as he touches, hugs, and flirts with other girls and it makes me upset. (like I am right now.) Will still talk every once in a while and I know that he still loves me but it is so hard to see him doing all the things that he does. And I have no friends at my school. I am just so lonely...

Thats so sad, Susan . Have a massive hug from me and all my friends (none of which go to my school either lol). My tip: go to a single sex school. Then you don't have to worry about the opposite sex for the whole week.

Do you have some "special person" in your life who does something repeatedly every day...something you loathe?

I don't loath her but my ex girlfriend ALWAYS manages to **** me off in very inventive ways. This wasn't made any better by the way I had to see her every day in the morning. Don't walk the same route to school anymore so problem solved (till I get home and she *****es at me for how I didnt walk to school with her *bashes head on wall*)

How about some genuinely special person in your life who every day does something really wonderful...something you love?

There is this American girl who lives in Wisconsin who ALWAYS, without fail, manages to make me laugh whenever I talk to her. She invariably manages to **** me off as well.... but thats worth it for the good times we have together.

 

[retrorich]

Do you have some "special person" in your life who does something repeatedly every day...something you loathe?

Yes, my boss. She shows up for work.

 

[retrorich]

Well, I'm at school right now, and my soul mate of a year and a half broke up with me a couple weeks ago, and now I feel so lonely. I see him all the time and I watch as he touches, hugs, and flirts with other girls and it makes me upset. (like I am right now.) Will still talk every once in a while and I know that he still loves me but it is so hard to see him doing all the things that he does. And I have no friends at my school. I am just so lonely...

Believe me, Susan, if he treats you that way, he does not love you. Forget about him. Your love is a precious gift--give it to someone who deserves, appreciates and returns it.

 

[cardero]

Sunstone writes: Do you have some "special person" in your life who does something repeatedly every day...something you loathe?

At my job in the toll booth there is one patron who thinks it is humorous to include at least 15 pennies for their $.50 toll.

Sunstone writes: How about some genuinely special person in your life who every day does something really wonderful...something you love?

At my job in the toll booth there is a patron who owns the diner in town and on his way home through the toll booth he will drop off sodas, coffees, cookies and pastries for the collectors.