I am for men and women making better decisions if they do not want to have a child.
But you can look at the world and see that people seek abortions. That's the status quo; if you want a change from that, it's up to you.
Now... the question is whether you choose to do that ethically - by getting people to freely choose other options - or unethically - by denying them their fundamental human rights.
I am also for anything that reduces abortions but the people that have the most power to reduce abortions are the parents.
But the people who seek abortions apparently want abortions. If they didn't, they wouldn't want them.
You're the one who wants to reduce abortions. Nobody else automatically has this goal just because it's something you want.
I agree is some cases it can be the right decision but very few.
I meant "right" as in "the most appealing option available to the person"... i.e. the option that people often freely choose, or would choose if it was available. Banning abortion only works as an anti-abortion strategy because people seek abortions.
It is interesting that you and many pro choice people only care about a woman's decision about an abortion but don't care about her decisions that lead to the pregnancy, you have never addressed that.
I guess you weren't paying attention, because I've addressed it a few times in this thread already.
... but as it happens, the things that lead up to pregnancy are most of the reason why I use the term "anti-choice" and not "anti-abortion":
- proper sex ed is an anti-abortion measure. Opposing this, or pushing "abstinence-only" programs, is pro-abortion.
- distributing condoms in colleges and high schools is an anti-abortion measure. Opposing this is pro-abortion.
- access to prescription contraceptives is an anti-abortion measure. Opposing this is pro-abortion.
- etc., etc.
Since so many anti-choice groups take the pro-abortion position on these and other issues, I can't reasonably call them or the movement as a whole "anti-abortion."
If I give a 12 year old a loaded gun I bet you would hold me responsible if that kid harmed someone with it. But you won't hold a woman and man responsible for their decisions prior to a pregnancy.
Careful. You're getting into that rapist mentality again. I'm not sure this is a road you want to go down.
Also: what's your goal? Is it to prevent abortions, or to punish women who have sex you disapprove of?