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"Gay Lovers": Harnessing the Voices of Straights in the Fight for Gay Rights

The following is an essay I wrote in response to this question on an application I submitted: Select a pressing social, cultural or scientific problem facing today's world. This problem can have global, national or local significance. Write an essay in which you imagine you have been given one year as well as substantial resources to address this problem. Where would you go? What would you do, and why?

"Gay Lovers":
Harnessing the Voices of Straights in the Fight for Gay Rights

Whenever and wherever there is prejudice, there are those in the majority who sympathize with the oppressed minority. These people may have been labeled as "communist sympathizers" during the period of McCarthyism, or "****** lovers" before (and sadly, even after) the Civil Rights movement. Today, there is a sizeable number of straight people who sympathize with the plight of homosexuals in this country. Though they may not have a label (yet), their role will be crucial in the growing debate on gays and gay marriage.

I happen to be one of these straight people for gay marriage rights, and I have seen firsthand the wariness with which fellow straights regard my firm stance. Apparently, some heterosexuals believe that only homosexuals can possibly express such passionate support for gay marriage rights. Nothing, of course, could be further from the truth. The firmness of a person's stance on gay marriage--just like that of a person's stance on segregation or slavery--does not necessarily have anything to do with which group that person belongs to; instead, more often than not, the firmness of a person's stance on gay marriage depends solely on how seriously that person values the rights and liberties guaranteed by our government to all its citizens.

That is why, given the one year and the substantial resources stipulated, I would found an organization dedicated to getting heterosexuals active in the cause of gay rights. I would call this organization "Straights for Gays". Straights for Gays would focus on educating and persuading the straight public, and on getting straight voices that support gay marriage heard. Given one year, I would hope to found a self-sustaining nonprofit organization--with chapters in every state--that gives straights a voice in their support for gay marriage rights, without them feeling as though such support compromises the certainty of their own sexual orientation.

I have noticed here at Miami the presence of Spectrum, an organization for gays, lesbians, bisexuals, transsexuals, and straights, that dedicates itself to celebrating sexual diversity. I have not, however, heard of any gay rights organization at the local or national level that makes straight people its focus. An organization such as Straights for Gays would be unique and would serve an important role in the gay rights movement.

America was founded upon a fierce determination to preserve liberty. Liberty, indeed, is precisely what is at stake in the gay marriage debate. Unfortunately, a thick prejudice clouds this issue. An organization like Straights for Gays would make it its goal to disperse this prejudice and address the core of this issue: it is unjust for any amendment or law to restrict the liberties of a group because of their race, gender, religion, or sexual orientation. Straights for Gays would predicate itself upon the words of James Madison, who said:

"It is proper to take alarm at the first experiment on our liberties. We hold this prudent jealousy to be the first duty of citizens and one of the noblest characteristics of the late Revolution. The freemen of America did not wait till usurped power had strengthened itself by exercise and entangled the question in precedents. They saw all the consequences in the principle, and they avoided the consequences by denying the principle. We revere this lesson too much ... to forget it."

Let us hope he is right.



Feel free to respond on the topic of straights in the gay rights dispute, or on the essay itself.
 

retrorich

SUPER NOT-A-MOD
I am straight. And I am proud to support my gay brothers and sisters in their fight against prejudicial injustice. I don't give a ____ what label anyone puts on me.
 

Fluffy

A fool
Good article! I know a lot of people who think that I am homosexual or bisexual simply because of my strongly pro gay stance. This doesnt really bother me though. Either they listen to my denial or they dont and in which case they arent worth bothering over. I've yet to have a girl that I like assume I am gay so there hasnt been much of a problem so far :).
 

Feathers in Hair

World's Tallest Hobbit
A wonderful essay!

And I agree with Retrorich. Any slur that anyone would fling at me for supporting a fellow human being in the rights I feel they are entitled to... well, it would make me cry, because of their ignorance. (I wish I wasn't so emotional about such things.) But I'd still stand with anyone that would have me by their side!
 

desi

Member
What rights should gays have that they don't already? Since they started spreading aids everyone started being nice to them.
 

Pah

Uber all member
desi said:
What rights should gays have that they don't already? Since they started spreading aids everyone started being nice to them.

That question has been amply adressed in other threads and is off-topic to this one.

If you want to repeat the discussion, start a new thread.

pah
 
desi said:
Since they started spreading aids everyone started being nice to them.
I wrote a very long post earlier with many exclamation points and capitalized words, but I deleted it out of respect to the forum rules. I cannot recall the last time I felt as infuriated as I am now. I will not be replying to you again on this or any other thread. All I can say is this: you ought to be ashamed of yourself. And now I will submit my post before I say something I will regret.
 

desi

Member
pah said:
That question has been amply adressed in other threads and is off-topic to this one.

If you want to repeat the discussion, start a new thread.

pah
No. What rights should gay people have that they don't have already? Marriage? Should straight people be able to get married too? Sodomy is already tolerated. What else do gay people want? This is on topic.
 

Feathers in Hair

World's Tallest Hobbit
desi said:
No. What rights should gay people have that they don't have already? Marriage? Should straight people be able to get married too? Sodomy is already tolerated. What else do gay people want? This is on topic.
Dearest Desi, I only wish I was as smart and as kind as Mr Spinkles... He chose the 'high road' and did not reply directly to your comment when he could have justifiably 'blown you out of the water.' (And if one has ever seen him debate, one knows how well he can do this.) All I can say is- Hey, wait! *scrambles to get back to desi as she is dragged up the high road by many well-wishing forum members* I wanted to take the easy way out and say something unkind! Noooo!
 

Pah

Uber all member
desi said:
No. What rights should gay people have that they don't have already? Marriage? Should straight people be able to get married too? Sodomy is already tolerated. What else do gay people want? This is on topic.

Perhaps you missed that my post was a moderator advisory as is this one

pah
 

Quoth The Raven

Half Arsed Muse
desi said:
What rights should gays have that they don't already? Since they started spreading aids everyone started being nice to them.
Yes. And so far we've all been pretty nice to you...as we can assume from the above you are neither homosexual nor HIV positive, then I guess we don't have to be nice to you any more.
I'd love to express just what I think of you, however I don't think there are words in the English language that convey the correct level of contempt.
May your god be with you...from what I've gleaned from other threads, the two of you are made for each other.
 
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