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GLTBT On the lookout

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
I cant remember if this is the same girl I mentioned before. I dont think so.

Okay. I skate. Seems like a lot of GLBT come to skate. I found out one couple had been married for years. I found another in the parking lot. I find it interesting since its a soap opera in the rink. Everyones family.

There is this girl of a race Im usually not attracted to. I am.
Same age. She has a wild personality. Or is it something else?

We connected a couple of times but she comes with a friend and I cant tell their relations with each ither. Usually you can tell eventually. They come in seperate cars.

So she makes a lot of jokes. She jokes about my appearance. Probably knows I like her. If not, dont know. Its not the usual jokes.

We talk a lot. Shes more around me than her friend

Then I am eating pizza. She grabs the pizza from my hands and takes a huge bite. Now what? How do I interpret that?

I get jeleous when I dont need to and if Im talking with anther woman, she ask if I know her, ans I blurted out I didnt. Shes just a stranger without thinking of just saying. Nope. We just met.

So. Giving all of that, I know I can just ask but outside of that, how would you take that? WOULD you ask?
 
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YmirGF

Bodhisattva in Recovery
I cant remember if this is the same girl I mentioned before. I dont think so.

Okay. I skate. Seems like a lot of GLBT come to skate. I found out one couple had been married for years. I found another in the parking lot. I find it interesting since its a soap opera in the rink. Everyones family.

There is this girl of a race Im usually not attracted to. I am.
Same age. She has a wild personality. Or is it something else?

We connected a couple of times but she comes with a friend and I cant tell their relations with each ither. Usually you can tell eventually. They come in seperate cars.

So she makes a lot of jokes. She jokes about my appearance. Probably knows I like her. If not, dont know. Its not the usual jokes.

We talk a lot. Shes more around me than her friend

Then I am eating pizza. She grabs the pizza from my hands and takes a huge bite. Now what? How do I interpret that?

I get jeleous when I dont need to and if Im talking with anther woman, she ask if I know her, ans I blurted out I didnt. Shes just a stranger without thinking of just saying. Nope. We just met.

So. Giving all of that, I know I can just ask but outside of that, how would you take that? WOULD you ask?
What does it matter even if she rebuffed you? You hardly know her. The pizza thing did leap out at me. That is downright strange. I'm not sure how I would react, but it does broadcast an unusual intimacy. Did you continue to eat the piece after she had bitten into it? Leave it to get cold on the plate? It tells me that she is not beyond taking liberties with your comfort zone and that in itself could prove to be uncomfortable.

After-thought: This makes me a bit uncomfortable. I'm looping on the idea that she will prove to be a button-pusher and you may like it sometimes, other times it could prove to be problematic - especially once she knows your likes and dislikes. Caveat emptor!
 
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Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
What does it matter even if she rebuffed you? You hardly know her. The pizza thing did leap out at me. That is downright strange. I'm not sure how I would react, but it does broadcast an unusual intimacy. Did you continue to eat the piece after she had bitten into it? Leave it to get cold on the plate? It tells me that she is not beyond taking liberties with your comfort zone and that in itself could prove to be uncomfortable.

After-thought: This makes me a bit uncomfortable. I'm looping on the idea that she will prove to be a button-pusher and you may like it sometimes, other times it could prove to be problematic - especially once she knows your likes and dislikes. Caveat emptor!

Yikes! If it did became problomatic we would be in a real soup opera. Yeah. I bet one older guy and we talked a good four years. I told him and said the samething. "Thats creepy". It was. I didnt realize I ate the rest kf the pizza. Werid, huh? But I turned into a teenager and though, she ate My pizza. But that girl she's with in addition, I cant put it together. And do I want to?

I would think it is general knowledge about confort zones especially in America. I figure she is my age, so it didnt seem like she acting like a kid (18 and up on adult skate night).

But we did see each other often for a good half year. I had a seizure on the floor and I was okay. She offered to take me home. The guy I mentioned usually takes me so I asked him about her. He and another regular since they opened said they didnt know her. So I declined the ride.

Then he mentioned it could be a set up for more than a serious dating communion. That floored me.

Id probably just have to ask. But her friend is throwing off on a jelous streak on both our sides so...
 

David1967

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
I cant remember if this is the same girl I mentioned before. I dont think so.

Okay. I skate. Seems like a lot of GLBT come to skate. I found out one couple had been married for years. I found another in the parking lot. I find it interesting since its a soap opera in the rink. Everyones family.

There is this girl of a race Im usually not attracted to. I am.
Same age. She has a wild personality. Or is it something else?

We connected a couple of times but she comes with a friend and I cant tell their relations with each ither. Usually you can tell eventually. They come in seperate cars.

So she makes a lot of jokes. She jokes about my appearance. Probably knows I like her. If not, dont know. Its not the usual jokes.

We talk a lot. Shes more around me than her friend

Then I am eating pizza. She grabs the pizza from my hands and takes a huge bite. Now what? How do I interpret that?

I get jeleous when I dont need to and if Im talking with anther woman, she ask if I know her, ans I blurted out I didnt. Shes just a stranger without thinking of just saying. Nope. We just met.

So. Giving all of that, I know I can just ask but outside of that, how would you take that? WOULD you ask?

You could say, "Hey! Thats my pizza, buy your own! " :)
 

columbus

yawn <ignore> yawn
We connected a couple of times but she comes with a friend and I cant tell their relations with each ither.

Here's what I would do.
Pick a nearby spot, preferably walking distance. When it is close to time to go, say something like "I could really use some ice cream. Would you and your friend like to run over to the ice cream place with me?"
Even if they don't, you'll probably find out a bunch of useful things. Who knows, maybe they are a pair. Maybe you'll all become friends and you will meet her friends cute sister ;)
Tom
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Here's what I would do.
Pick a nearby spot, preferably walking distance. When it is close to time to go, say something like "I could really use some ice cream. Would you and your friend like to run over to the ice cream place with me?"
Even if they don't, you'll probably find out a bunch of useful things. Who knows, maybe they are a pair. Maybe you'll all become friends and you will meet her friends cute sister ;)
Tom

The guy did tell me I could end up having two girlfriends. Eemm.
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
You could say, "Hey! Thats my pizza, buy your own! " :)


Haha. Yeah. I could have. Heres another. I fell hard on the floor and they had to write up an incident report. I joked with her and said "hey, you werent there to help me out". She took it serious. I told her brightly it was a joke as her friend tried to interject and soften the mood.
 

David1967

Well-Known Member
Premium Member
Haha. Yeah. I could have. Heres another. I fell hard on the floor and they had to write up an incident report. I joked with her and said "hey, you werent there to help me out". She took it serious. I told her brightly it was a joke as her friend tried to interject and soften the mood.

Seriously? That really happened? :)
 

Skwim

Veteran Member
A bold stroke like the pizza thing amounts to hitting on you. She's telling you that she wants to be so comfortable with you that taking a bite out of your pizza is nothing. It's something very good friends could do without blinking an eye. She very much wants to be your friend, or explore the possibility.


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Burl

Active Member
No, seriously, I didn't find a definition for GLTBT besides:
"The acronym GLTBT has a life path number 7. Life path number seven is a fretful, unique, scholarly individual who is constantly prepared to bargain systematically with himself and his surroundings."
 
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