So ask anything of the Father in my name and it will be done for you doesn't mean ask anything in my name and it will be done for you. See why I'm confused!?!
I don't understand why God wishes to play these games. I want to do His will and obey him in all things and he chooses to hide from me and not speak clearly. What good does that do?
I'm trying not to doubt. I'm trying to give God the faith he asks. I pray every day that I do God's will. His word says He will give me the grace. It's kind of hard to have no doubt when repeatedly God's Word turns out false and unreliable!
He isn't playing games.
If one pulls a scripture at the expense of everything else, it will get confusing. For an example: If one just takes Job's "The Lord giveth and the Lord taketh away" at the expense of what he said after "Surely I spoke of things I did not understand" then you will have an erroneous understanding of the first statement.
So... ask yourself a question. "Did Jesus ask for anything? Or did He only ask for that which was in His Father's will" for he only did what He saw His Father doing and only did His will. Thus, the Last New Will and Testament is our guiding legal document for what His will is.
Or, if you want a well rounded understanding, John explained it further:
1 John 5:
14 This is the confidence we have in approaching God: that if we ask anything according to his will, he hears us.
15 And if we know that he hears us—whatever we ask—we know that we have what we asked of him.
Since he was with Jesus, I'm sure his understanding was better than ours. It certainly works for me.
Incidentally, faith is a muscle. You increase your faith by hearing and hearing ad-continuum Romans 10:17. If you want more faith, hear/read/meditate more on the word of Gdo.