You are going to hell because that is what God says happens to people like you.
Should Christians bear no responsibility for the awful things they say in the name of their vengeful God?
Only the most petty and vindictive not only believe but wish for such a concept.
This is somewhat simplistic, but I think Christianity can be sometimes be usefully looked at as divided between those Christians who focus on the loving aspects of the Christian God, and those Christians who focus on the "hell and damnation" aspects of the same God.
The former seem to emphasize their God's love and mercy, and to encourage social responsibility towards others, especially the poor and less fortunate. The latter tend to emphasize their God's judgment and punishment, and tend to focus on personal salvation through faith in Jesus Christ as their lord and savior.
The division between the two seems to be as much a matter of individual personality as it is anything else. Are you more motivated by love of God or fear of God? At least, that's my take on it. I'm probably all wrong once again.
Believing in an eternal hell is one of the most evil things someone can believe in. Any Christian, no matter how good of a person is just as culpable as someone who preaches fire and brimstone although the latter is actually guilty of sadism while the former may simply be brainwashed to try and reconcile the double think of their belief system of an "all loving" god. What they lack in sadism they make up for in stockholm syndrome to their concept of god (and in my experience to their local church and social structure as well).
I find fire and brimstone types to be comparable with propagators of genocide in attitude and inclination (since they are essentially advocating and supporting and enjoying what would amount to a genocide happening in the afterlife). I think this is a pretty good standard since according to their Bible it isn't the action that counts but the thought:
"Anyone who hates a brother or sister is a murderer, and you know that no murderer has eternal life residing in him." (I John 3:15)
"But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." (Matthew 5:28)
Though perhaps I want to have my cake and eat it too by pointing out the thought-crime concept here, I should note that the difference between hating your brother and actually wanting to kill him is different; however the way these types of people speak you have no doubt that they enjoy the idea of people going to hell and at least some of them would gleefully lynch certain types of people (it was common in the past). If they are not capable of murder they at least enjoy believing it will happen in their concept of the afterlife.
I feel pretty bad for those with Stockholm in this case but as unfortunate as their case may be, they legitimize the fire and brimstone types by normalizing the belief and making it seem like there is some kind of reconciliation. There isn't anything good in a belief in hell, it harms mankind and it either enables sadism or warp's the person's concept of love which justifies all kinds of crazy unhealthy relationships and social structures. I know because I've seen it first hand. It plays out often with I Corinthians 14:34 or I Timothy 2:12 on wives, but could also be used and probably was in the past to justify a more extreme thing like the verses of the Bible telling parents to murder their children in Exodus 22:15 or Deuteronomy 21:18-21.
If god can damn a good but unbelieving person for all eternity and still be all loving, couldn't a parent kill their child for being rebellious or hitting them and still love them? This double-think would allow them to justify it and console themselves while the fire and brimstone type might enjoy it on some level. Both views are messed up, but both emerge from the exact same belief.
Edit: I feel very strongly about beliefs in eternal Hell and what it takes to justify that belief, probably stronger than how I feel about most any other belief. If anyone is offended... well I didn't want to give a "trigger warning" least I offend someone by the mere presence of that content warning
. Please understand I honestly didn't mean any offense and am not referring to anyone specific public figure or not but just speaking generally. I'm not hating on Christianity or Christians, just on the belief in eternal hell itself which as I've said I find abhorrent.