I came across Drs. Alexander and Moody in the Intelligence Squared debate: Do Realistic Interpretations of NDEs Imply Violation of the Laws of Physics? As I noted in the OP, I found that debate rather unsatisfying. There was a lot of dumb stuff on the other side of the table.We're in a realm of equal and opposite reactions, so you might find we don't get what we expect always...
Watch the debates against Dr Eben Alexander by skeptics..Try debating atheists in a public chat area on this subject...