Today I had someone on RF make it clear to me that if I don't convert to Islam I will go to hell ,(and produced the Quaranic verse to prove it.) This isn't just a Muslim thing. I see this all the time among Christians. It's disgusting!
DO YOU REALIZE HOW OFFENSIVE THAT IS??
People have loved ones that died outside your religion. If someone's Mother (who they loved dearly) lived a good, humble, God-fearing life, and was honest, followed the golden rule, and charitable to others, and then died outside of your religion, she goes to hell! Wouldn't you be offended if someone made such a statement that would indicate your mother is in hell forever because she didn't believe what they do.
Don't you see how ridiculous that sounds? You are telling them that those they cherish who die outside of your faith are going to be joyless, miserable, in agony FOREVER, because they don't adhere to your system of beliefs. How can you expect a decent person to not strongly resent such a belief?
Even if your faith is the truth, a person can be mistaken and reject it without realizing they are rejecting the truth. Should a person go to Hell for a crime they didn't know they were guilty of committing??
If that is the kind of faith you belong to, I'm really amazed you can't see why so many people hate it.