God serves us and is not a servant by nature. The highest in heaven is the servant of all.
The Son was granted power and authority but there He had nothing to prove.
The Son is equal to the Father in nature. (Father/Son- same nature- both have God nature........My son and me have the same human nature, we are both human.)
The Son learned obedience when He became a man, a servant. (Heb 5:8)
How did they relate before that? As Father and Son but not a dominant Father over a cowering Son.
Zech 13:7
Awake, O sword, against My Shepherd, against the man who is My Companion, declares the LORD of Hosts. Strike the Shepherd, and the sheep will be scattered, and I will turn My hand against the little ones.
"the man who is my companion" indicates a relationship of equality. There was love between them and they knew each other very well. Do you think that the Father had a list of rules for His Son?
A list of rules means no complete agreement.
We become the temple of the Holy Spirit with God in us. In the same way the Father is in the Son and the Son in the Father.
John 14:10 Don’t you believe that I am in the Father, and that the Father is in me? The words I say to you I do not speak on my own authority. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work. 11 Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the works themselves.
The Father was living in the Son literally just as the Father and Son live in a Christian. (John 14:23)
John 17:20 “My prayer is not for them alone. I pray also for those who will believe in me through their message, 21 that all of them may be one, Father, just as you are in me and I am in you. May they also be in us so that the world may believe that you have sent me. 22 I have given them the glory that you gave me, that they may be one as we are one— 23 I in them and you in me—so that they may be brought to complete unity.
I see no reason why we should not take these things literally. Jesus cast spirits out of people all the time, literally.
We are in Christ and He is in us. His Spirit is in us and joined to our spirit. (1Cor 6:17) We receive the Spirit of adoption and become children of God. In that way we are born again spiritually and are a new creation. This happens when we receive the Holy Spirit. The Father and Son come and dwell in us. (John 14:23) In Christ we have a fullness because in Him dwell the fullness of deity. (Col 2:9) and yes we do partake of the divine nature. (2Pet 1:4) but cannot be God because we are human only in nature. We become what humans were meant to be I guess.
Jesus did not say I am not God when He said that only God is good. WE know that Jesus was and is good and is exactly like His Father, so He is God.
John 10:25 Jesus answered, “I did tell you, but you do not believe. The works I do in my Father’s name testify about me, 26 but you do not believe because you are not my sheep. 27 My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. 28 I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. 29 My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand. 30 I and the Father are one.”
31 Again his Jewish opponents picked up stones to stone him, 32 but Jesus said to them, “I have shown you many good works from the Father. For which of these do you stone me?”
33 “We are not stoning you for any good work,” they replied, “but for blasphemy, because you, a mere man, claim to be God.”
34 Jesus answered them, “Is it not written in your Law, ‘I have said you are “gods”’? 35 If he called them ‘gods,’ to whom the word of God came—and Scripture cannot be set aside— 36 what about the one whom the Father set apart as his very own and sent into the world? Why then do you accuse me of blasphemy because I said, ‘I am God’s Son’? 37 Do not believe me unless I do the works of my Father. 38 But if I do them, even though you do not believe me, believe the works, that you may know and understand that the Father is in me, and I in the Father.” 39 Again they tried to seize him, but he escaped their grasp.
He bamboozled the Jews with Psalm 82 about men being called gods and Him just claiming to be the Son of God. Look at Psalm 82:8 and see that Yahweh inherits the nations and so the Son who inherits the nations in Ps 2 is Yahweh.
Jesus claiming to be the Son of God means that He is equal to His Father.
I am in the Father and the Father is in me. It means Jesus is claiming the be God, as the Jews said.
Christians become the body of Christ literally with His Spirit in us and we are joined to Jesus and to each other.
The Son does all the things that the Father does and gives us His life and created all things and is our head, our source. He is our all in all.
Don't you know about "soul"? Are you disagreeing with Jesus (Matt 10:28)