I need a virtual hug.....

[Hope]

Once again, I find myself single. I was unceremoniously ditched today---via e-mail---by the guy I was dating. Apparently, he is still in love with his ex and failed to tell me this. Men!!! I guess I am better off being single anyhow. But it still hurts. Hurts like heck. And I was actually starting to fall for this guy.

So, yeah, I have once again entered the domain of singlehood---which, actually, in one sense, I readily embrace again. But, man, does it hurt to be disposed of. I feel like crying, but no tears will come. Somebody give me a hug....

 

[Ceridwen018]

Hope, an infinite supply of hugs for you from me! Girls rule and boys drool, and that's the truth! If anything honey, I'd be ticked from wasting all that time and energy--what a jerk!

 

[SoulTYPE]

*HUUUUUUUUUUUUUGGGGGGGG*

I feel you Hope.

erm not in that sense. Anyways, I do feel you. It isn't always easy to be single. If you would like to talk I am always here (almost literally).

 

[robtex]

Hope you are an amazing woman. You are clever, whitty ( you cracked me up the other day), deep, loving nuturing absolutly stunning, cultured artiucate and everthing added together amazing. I see how romantic you are with your need for far away travel...you have a creative side in your writing (which I really want to read). I see how important others feelings are to you on here...and how giving you are.....

I know there must be a mulitude of guys everyday who you work with or interact with who are too scared to say anything to you because of your gorgeous looks and smarts. I have to confess that any place other than cyberspace I would be be timid unless I really got to know you on a neutral ground.

You are so deserving of a guy who will be faithful to only you. I see all the love in your heart on a day to day basis and think how lucky any guy would be to be on the recieving end of your heart.

Here sweetie is a cyber hug.....dear if you did have tears and I was close enough I would certainly ask to remove them from your cheeks with my lips....

 

[SoulTYPE]

Girls rule and boys drool, and that's the truth!

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I'm going to bed.

 

[QTpi]

{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{HOPE}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

A really big cyber hug for you, Hope. My thoughts are with you.

 

[Pah]

XOXOXOXOXOXO Hugs and kisses. Maybe we could have dinner?
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But that lady posting above me would come along too! We'd love to meet ya!

Bob

 

[Green Gaia]

Here ya go...

 

[jewscout]

Big hug Hope!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Just watch the Jiggy that always makes me smile

:jiggy: :jiggy: !!GO JIGGY GO!!:jiggy: :jiggy:

 

[HelpMe]

/me hugs monitor

 

[Master Vigil]

Just think of it this way, he wasn't deserving of you. And he knew that deep inside. So he had to feel dominant again and therefore went back to his ex. You were too good for him. Don't think of him ditching you, think of him running away with his tail between his legs because you are so great.

Perhaps this is too selfish of a thing to do, but its fun as hell anyway.:jiggy: :woohoo: :jiggy:

Have some rockin hugs and don't forget, now you can start looking for a man who is more deserving.:jam:

 

[standing_on_one_foot]

*gives Hope a big ol' hug and kicks the unceremonious ditcher :149:* Dun't know what he's giving up, that's his problem.

Have another jiggy, too :jiggy: Feel better, Hope!

 

[Hope]

Awwwwww!!! *tears of appreciation gathering in my eyes*

Thanks, guys---all of you are awesome. I appreciate your hugs very much....they've helped to ease my pain a bit.

And, Master Vigil, you know, what you said actually makes a lot of sense. I didn't think of it that way. He did say he didn't deserve me, so.....well, perhaps he just couldn't handle that. :tsk:

 

[Master Vigil]

There are always ways to see things in a better light. Bad things are only bad if you react to them that way. If you react differently, they can be great.

 

[Lightkeeper]

Big HUGS to you Hope. I think some people dump because they have been dumped. He will be sorry in the long run. It's a good thing you found out early what a loser he is.

I had a guy take me out on a date once in college. In the middle of the date he told me he asked me out to make his girlfriend jealous. Even on the first date that is painful.

 

[Feathers in Hair]

*huge hugs for Hope* I wish I could say 'you poor soul,' but if he was dating you and didn't recognize that you're that you're the most wonderful thing since...er... bread, then it's his loss. Not that that makes it any easier, I know.

*sigh* But I love your new quote, at least!

 

[Mr Spinkles]

*Hug*

 

[Hope]

Lightkeeper---ouch! What jerks some guys are.

Feathers, I was watching LOTR the other night for the zillionth time, and when it came to that part where Arwen says that line, I just thought to myself---wow, that sounds really cool. ( I was watching LOTR, by the way, as a means of escapism, to get my mind off the guy situation. That's one of the things I love about LOTR---I feel completely transported to another world whenever I watch the movies or read the books. )

 

[Master Vigil]

Yeah, long movies are great at that. I love watching the tenth kingdom which is 7 and 1/2 hours long. You really get transported into that film.

 

[Scuba Pete]

People are destined to break our hearts. You have to look past the pain and to the joy that will come with the right person!

BTW, when ever life hands me lemons, I find someone to chuck them at!

After that I go diving where no one can see you cry!

HUGS​