Silent Screams
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I'm so angry right now. I don’t have words to explain. A few months ago I lost the one person in my life who was the world to me. The person who made me believe in good again; The person who made me want to be better on a daily basis; The person who taught me how to take a deep breath and relax; The person who was like the air that I breathe. He was my rock, my protector, my heart, my best friend. I remember that day like it was just this morning. And when he was gone, I knew I would forever be changed. It's like my heart stopped beating that day and it has never been the same sense. I try to move forward, but the pain is just too much sometimes. I'll never see his handsome face again, hold his hand, or feel his kiss upon my lips. I will never make love to him again, or feel the comfort of his arms around me. He's gone - just like that. And I can never bring him back. No matter how hard I begged, pleaded, and swore I would sell my soul for one more day. I never got it.
It's odd, I guess that would be the word to use, that my world stopped turning and it's spinning out of control simultaneously. I feel like I can't breathe, I can't speak, I can't think. No one knows the battle within me. No one knows the pain. When people see me, they say I look tired and ask if I have slept. They have no idea, that I did in fact sleep. I drugged myself up to sleep, but cry as soon as no one is around. I wake up at night in tears, because he's in my dreams. I guess I do see him, but he's gone. I can't smell him anymore. And the only time I hear his voice is when I play videos over and over again. Oh how I miss his laugh and his beautiful eyes.
I try to carry on but the only time I can do that is when I act as though he is still around. I reach out for him at night, because for a split moment in time, I forget that he is no longer there. And when I come to and realize he will never be there again, I succumb to the pain all over again. I miss him in ways I never thought were imaginable. I hurt in ways that could never be described. I've cried more than I ever thought was imaginable. I couldn't tell you how many times I have collapsed in a ball on our living room floor shaking and calling out his name.
I'm so angry at everyone and everything. I’m angry at the world for moving on when I'm still here. I'm angry at him for leaving me all alone. I'm angry at him for not fighting harder, although he probably did all the fighting he had within him. I'm angry at myself for never saying things that I should have said. I'm angry at myself for taking our time together for granted; thinking that we would have forever together. I'm angry that no one understands. I'm angry that people say "you'll be ok" when I truly believe I won't be. He was my "once in a lifetime".
I wish I had taken more pictures, recorded more videos, kissed more, hugged longer, and told him how much I love him until I was blue in the face; I would still continue to tell him if I could. I wish I had kept all the little things that I thought were insignificant; I never knew how much those little things would end up meaning to me. A little hand written note telling me he loved me (because he never wrote things down). Just scribbled notes on things that he would be working on. I wish I had never deleted photos that we had taken because "I don't look good in that photo; Let's take it again"; I wish I had kept the bad ones too. I wish I hadn't deleted messages on my phone, and voicemails he had left. A laugh, a hug, a kiss, his voice, him snoring in my ear at night; I wish I could tell him to roll over, but if I knew then that he wouldn't be there forever, I would have just smiled and had a sleepless night listening to him snore. I wish I could smell him and take in a deep breath like when I was wrapped up in his arms, simply, I miss just his touch. That those are the things that I miss the most.
I would give up my life to have just one more moment in time with him. To look into his eyes and tell him that I love him one more time. To give him one more hug, one last kiss, because I never got to do that. To take in one more breath of him. A part of me died that day, a large part of me. I hope he knew how important he was to me. I hope he knew how much I loved him, how much I still love him and forever will. That I hold the memories of him so close to my heart. I wish I could go back and relive that last day for ever, like the movie "Groundhog Day". I'd even take one of the worst days we ever had together. At least then I would feel whole again and I wouldn't have to miss my best friend.
It's odd, I guess that would be the word to use, that my world stopped turning and it's spinning out of control simultaneously. I feel like I can't breathe, I can't speak, I can't think. No one knows the battle within me. No one knows the pain. When people see me, they say I look tired and ask if I have slept. They have no idea, that I did in fact sleep. I drugged myself up to sleep, but cry as soon as no one is around. I wake up at night in tears, because he's in my dreams. I guess I do see him, but he's gone. I can't smell him anymore. And the only time I hear his voice is when I play videos over and over again. Oh how I miss his laugh and his beautiful eyes.
I try to carry on but the only time I can do that is when I act as though he is still around. I reach out for him at night, because for a split moment in time, I forget that he is no longer there. And when I come to and realize he will never be there again, I succumb to the pain all over again. I miss him in ways I never thought were imaginable. I hurt in ways that could never be described. I've cried more than I ever thought was imaginable. I couldn't tell you how many times I have collapsed in a ball on our living room floor shaking and calling out his name.
I'm so angry at everyone and everything. I’m angry at the world for moving on when I'm still here. I'm angry at him for leaving me all alone. I'm angry at him for not fighting harder, although he probably did all the fighting he had within him. I'm angry at myself for never saying things that I should have said. I'm angry at myself for taking our time together for granted; thinking that we would have forever together. I'm angry that no one understands. I'm angry that people say "you'll be ok" when I truly believe I won't be. He was my "once in a lifetime".
I wish I had taken more pictures, recorded more videos, kissed more, hugged longer, and told him how much I love him until I was blue in the face; I would still continue to tell him if I could. I wish I had kept all the little things that I thought were insignificant; I never knew how much those little things would end up meaning to me. A little hand written note telling me he loved me (because he never wrote things down). Just scribbled notes on things that he would be working on. I wish I had never deleted photos that we had taken because "I don't look good in that photo; Let's take it again"; I wish I had kept the bad ones too. I wish I hadn't deleted messages on my phone, and voicemails he had left. A laugh, a hug, a kiss, his voice, him snoring in my ear at night; I wish I could tell him to roll over, but if I knew then that he wouldn't be there forever, I would have just smiled and had a sleepless night listening to him snore. I wish I could smell him and take in a deep breath like when I was wrapped up in his arms, simply, I miss just his touch. That those are the things that I miss the most.
I would give up my life to have just one more moment in time with him. To look into his eyes and tell him that I love him one more time. To give him one more hug, one last kiss, because I never got to do that. To take in one more breath of him. A part of me died that day, a large part of me. I hope he knew how important he was to me. I hope he knew how much I loved him, how much I still love him and forever will. That I hold the memories of him so close to my heart. I wish I could go back and relive that last day for ever, like the movie "Groundhog Day". I'd even take one of the worst days we ever had together. At least then I would feel whole again and I wouldn't have to miss my best friend.