Insecurities

[huajiro]

I think this forum is a good place to open-up and share things you don't tell anyone. What are some of your insecurities?

 

[huajiro]

My insecurities are my new hair loss, my love handles, and my lack of intellect.

 

[jewscout]

I'm right there w/ u huajiro on the love handles. And also my lack of knowledge on Judaism. I try to absorb as much info as i can but there's a butt ton!

 

[huajiro]

I'm right there w/ u huajiro on the love handles. And also my lack of knowledge on Judaism. I try to absorb as much info as i can but there's a butt ton!

Well Jewscout, looks like you and I are the only ones brave enough to share our insecurities...I am giving you some frubals for your courage.

 

[huajiro]

It wouldn't let me give you frubals, but as soon as it does, I will.

 

[jewscout]

thats cool man whenever!:jiggy:

 

[mrscardero]

I am insecure about my height. I am realizing that I am getting shorter every year. I fear that I will be less than 5 feet sooner of later. I am tired of having to use a stool or wear shoes with heels. People are starting to wonder if I borrowed Frankenstein's shoes. I want my height back :149:

 

[huajiro]

I am insecure about my height. I am realizing that I am getting shorter every year. I fear that I will be less than 5 feet sooner of later. I am tired of having to use a stool or wear shoes with heels. People are starting to wonder if I borrowed Frankenstein's shoes. I want my height back :149:

Being short isn't an issue so much for women, for men it can be horrible. I mean, I know that it bothers you, but no one else would look down on you.

 

[mrscardero]

Being short isn't an issue so much for women, for men it can be horrible. I mean, I know that it bothers you, but no one else would look down on you.

No one looks down on me...they look down at me...:biglaugh:

It runs in my family. We tend to shrink as we get older. There is nothing I can do about it, but it would be nice to be able to reach for a snack without having to get a step ladder cause your spouse decided to place it on the highest shelf. :149:

 

[Hope]

Good topic, huajiro. Well, I will try to be brave here. I used to be very insecure--thankfully, within the last several years I have overcome most of my insecurities. I am pretty secure as far as my looks are concerned, but I am not so secure when it comes to relationships with people. I am a naturally shy person, and one of my biggest fears is rejection by others. There, I admitted it. But my faith in God is helping me with that--He has helped me overcome all my other former insecurities.

 

[Hope]

I am insecure about my height. I am realizing that I am getting shorter every year. I fear that I will be less than 5 feet sooner of later. I am tired of having to use a stool or wear shoes with heels. People are starting to wonder if I borrowed Frankenstein's shoes. I want my height back :149:

mrscarrdero, this world is a better place with all us short people in it! Don't be ahamed of your height--yes, it has its disadvantages, but I'd rather be short than tall any day...

 

[Lintu]

I am very scared of hurting people. I get really upset when someone is mad at me, because I never intend to hurt anyone's feelings or be mean, but somehow I end up doing it sometimes anyway. I'm just really sensitive about how others feel about me, I guess.

 

[mrscardero]

mrscarrdero, this world is a better place with all us short people in it! Don't be ahamed of your height--yes, it has its disadvantages, but I'd rather be short than tall any day...

For one thing, I don't have a problem getting in and out of my car. I also don't hit my head when the ceiling is low...watch out for the ceiling fan

 

[huajiro]

Good topic, huajiro. Well, I will try to be brave here. I used to be very insecure--thankfully, within the last several years I have overcome most of my insecurities. I am pretty secure as far as my looks are concerned, but I am not so secure when it comes to relationships with people. I am a naturally shy person, and one of my biggest fears is rejection by others. There, I admitted it. But my faith in God is helping me with that--He has helped me overcome all my other former insecurities.

I know exactly how you feel Hope. My brother always called me names when I was a kid...it made me very insecure growing up, and very shy towards people. After a few relationships, I started feeling better about myself physically, and have been a little more carefree. The more you get out and meet people, the more you realize that you will not be rejected. Imagine being a man and having to initiate a conversation all the time. (I understand that sometimes women initiate the conversation, but society is more geared towards us doing it)