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Intoxicated sports fans driving cars

ShivaFan

Satyameva Jayate
Premium Member
Namaste

Last night, an intoxicated driver slammed into the rear of my car while we were stopped and waiting at a red light. I could clearly smell vodka and marijuana on the intoxicated driver when I got him to get out of the pickup truck this person was driving. Both my wife and daughter were in my sedan, the impact to the back of my stopped sedan was forceful, the intoxicated person never even stepped on his breaks, and after slamming into our back once then lost control when trying to back off (in my opinion to flee the scene) and then somehow lunged forward and hit the rear of my sedan a second time.

Since there were adjacent stopped cars in the next lane, there was no escape for hit and run by this intoxicated driver. I keep good relations with local police of multiple cities where I live and have their dial on my cell phone directly to them without going through 911. Three squad cars were onsite within 5 minutes, and pinned the truck and "driver" in from front, side and back.

My wife substained injuries, she was immediately in notable pain in the back of the head, neck, right shoulder, arm and crying. She was taken in an ambulance.

The person and his like drunk "friend" are very lucky I did not dispose them at the incident.

There is no doubt in my mind, this person just came from some sports bar or other after watching the "big" football game that went off prior to this incident. Normally I never go out during and especially after a "big game". I even said before going out, there are drunks out on the road, this was a simple errand and the next day a holiday (Martin Luther King day) for my wife and daughter.

Going out was a big mistake. From this point forward, I hate all and every single drunk, pot smoking football fan. I cannot comprehend at any level why such people think it is ok to become intoxicated watching a football game at a public venue, then get behind the wheel of a vehicle and put everyone's life in danger. It is only a matter of time before they kill someone. If I had my way, any public bar would be outlawed, especially those which combine sports entertainment or gambling with intoxication served. You should only be allowed to purchase alcohol from a government outlet where they take your registration for intoxicants down and date-time of purchase. Intoxication should not be allowed in a public venue, the designated driver program is a total failure, and any public venue that has a parking lot for cars and other manually operated vehicles should not be allowed to serve intoxicants. Any venue that serves intoxicants in an entertainment venue should be fully liable for any injury or damage caused.

Hindu relatives came and all of us went right away to the hospital to see my wife. At the hospital I was told by nurses it was very busy with other like injury cases due to this football game and drunks on the road after the game. They had their hands full with injury and death.

Incredibly, I had zero injury, nothing. My daughter is ok, but please pray for my wife who had to go to the emergency ward. She is not a big tall women, she is only 5 feet 2 inches. She is a devotee of Ganesha Whom is her personal deity.

Please ask Ganesha to remove all her pain and suffering and obstacles.

Om Namah Sivaya
 

Sb1995

Om Sai Ram
Wow that is very unfortunate. I will pray for your wife to have a speedy recovery. Should have knocked the guy out ;)
 

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
Take care of your wife. This can be a serious injury. One of my sister-in-laws (bhabhi) suffered greatly because of an accident just like this.
 

ratikala

Istha gosthi
namaskaram shiv fan ji :namaste

I am so sorry to hear of this awfull accident .

of course yes , I will pray for your wife's recovery and allso for all your family's future protection .
we have a very beautifull small ganesha here he will be most happy to send his blessings I will make him extra special sweets this evening and offer them on your family's behalf .
 

Kalidas

Well-Known Member
I will make sure you are mentioned in my prayers at puja today. This is terrorable I hope all ends well soon
 

NobodyYouKnow

Misanthropist
Namaste

Last night, an intoxicated driver slammed into the rear of my car while we were stopped and waiting at a red light. I could clearly smell vodka and marijuana on the intoxicated driver when I got him to get out of the pickup truck this person was driving. Both my wife and daughter were in my sedan, the impact to the back of my stopped sedan was forceful, the intoxicated person never even stepped on his breaks, and after slamming into our back once then lost control when trying to back off (in my opinion to flee the scene) and then somehow lunged forward and hit the rear of my sedan a second time.

Since there were adjacent stopped cars in the next lane, there was no escape for hit and run by this intoxicated driver. I keep good relations with local police of multiple cities where I live and have their dial on my cell phone directly to them without going through 911. Three squad cars were onsite within 5 minutes, and pinned the truck and "driver" in from front, side and back.

My wife substained injuries, she was immediately in notable pain in the back of the head, neck, right shoulder, arm and crying. She was taken in an ambulance.

The person and his like drunk "friend" are very lucky I did not dispose them at the incident.

There is no doubt in my mind, this person just came from some sports bar or other after watching the "big" football game that went off prior to this incident. Normally I never go out during and especially after a "big game". I even said before going out, there are drunks out on the road, this was a simple errand and the next day a holiday (Martin Luther King day) for my wife and daughter.

Going out was a big mistake. From this point forward, I hate all and every single drunk, pot smoking football fan. I cannot comprehend at any level why such people think it is ok to become intoxicated watching a football game at a public venue, then get behind the wheel of a vehicle and put everyone's life in danger. It is only a matter of time before they kill someone. If I had my way, any public bar would be outlawed, especially those which combine sports entertainment or gambling with intoxication served. You should only be allowed to purchase alcohol from a government outlet where they take your registration for intoxicants down and date-time of purchase. Intoxication should not be allowed in a public venue, the designated driver program is a total failure, and any public venue that has a parking lot for cars and other manually operated vehicles should not be allowed to serve intoxicants. Any venue that serves intoxicants in an entertainment venue should be fully liable for any injury or damage caused.

Hindu relatives came and all of us went right away to the hospital to see my wife. At the hospital I was told by nurses it was very busy with other like injury cases due to this football game and drunks on the road after the game. They had their hands full with injury and death.

Incredibly, I had zero injury, nothing. My daughter is ok, but please pray for my wife who had to go to the emergency ward. She is not a big tall women, she is only 5 feet 2 inches. She is a devotee of Ganesha Whom is her personal deity.

Please ask Ganesha to remove all her pain and suffering and obstacles.

Om Namah Sivaya
Wow, that is some heavy stuff my friend. I hope you and your family are okay and are doing okay, you know?

You have more self-control than I do, because I probably would have 'disposed of them at the incident'.

I hope they lose their licence, go to jail and pay for this.

Please give my best wishes and thoughts to your lovely wife and I hope she pulls through.

I don't pray to Lord Ganesha, but I have a picture of Him in my bedroom (leaf Ganesha) and I shall ask Him for His intervention in these matters, we'll see what happens. I'll ask Siva anyway - He listens.

Anyway, all the best and this is terrible news, but I hope things all work out.

There should be tougher restrictions placed on those who obtain a vehicle license and before a license is issued, drivers must undergo a full psychological evaluation and those with a criminal record, those with a psychiatric record, those under 21 years of age should not be given a license.

I am still all for raising the age of consent to 21 (instead of 18) and children yes, children can get a car license as soon as they turn 15...that is rubbish.

I still maintain that an adult brain doesn't even begin to develop until one is in their early to mid 20's - younger than that, kids are just way too irresponsible for their actions and they are way too reckless and careless.

They think that driving a car is something like a video game...something out of Grand Theft Auto...all the 'P' platers doing 90 in a 60 zone...lane swapping like crazy with their stereo on full volume so their whole car 'beats'...

Om Namah Shivaya.
 
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Vinayaka

devotee
Premium Member
I had a oft repeated mantra for my children as they grew and learned ... "Bad things happen when you drink." In this case it's innocent bystanders. That is one extremely powerful lobby group, the booze one.
 

ShivaFan

Satyameva Jayate
Premium Member
Namaste

Thank you all for your prayers, they are already making a huge difference.

You know, I have never had one actual "problem" in my life until this happened. The reason I call this my only "problem" that ever happened to me is, it is my wife who got hurt. Sure, I have been involved in all sorts of nut job incidents and even dangerous things, but those sort of things are just a laugh. They are nothing.

But my wife is an Indian Hindu woman. It is a great honor to be married to her, it is my responsibility and to all my large family of relatives that nothing harms her ever.

Even though I am honestly not at fault here, yet I feel I failed. I was warned by my mind and perhaps by the Devas, "do not go out, there are drunks on the road". I even said so outloud before we went out.

Yet, simply because I wanted fancy chat (Indian gourmet snacks), we went out.

My wife is, gratefully, not angry with me. But I am angry with myself.

You are wonderful all!

Om Namah Sivaya
 

Kalidas

Well-Known Member
I am not against drinking (I drink every once in a while) but I do agree Bars are worrisome. My idea would be you know how at parties you put your keys in a jar? They should do that at bars. If your coming in drop off your keys go back to the bartender for your keys back if your too drunk they don't give them back.
 

Kalidas

Well-Known Member
Namaste

Thank you all for your prayers, they are already making a huge difference.

You know, I have never had one actual "problem" in my life until this happened. The reason I call this my only "problem" that ever happened to me is, it is my wife who got hurt. Sure, I have been involved in all sorts of nut job incidents and even dangerous things, but those sort of things are just a laugh. They are nothing.

But my wife is an Indian Hindu woman. It is a great honor to be married to her, it is my responsibility and to all my large family of relatives that nothing harms her ever.

Even though I am honestly not at fault here, yet I feel I failed. I was warned by my mind and perhaps by the Devas, "do not go out, there are drunks on the road". I even said so outloud before we went out.

Yet, simply because I wanted fancy chat (Indian gourmet snacks), we went out.

My wife is, gratefully, not angry with me. But I am angry with myself.

You are wonderful all!

Om Namah Sivaya

As someone who has been there and blamed myself for things in the past. Don't do it. It will add more pain and suffering that is not needed and will only add stress to your wife. If you ever listen to anything I say please listen to this, that is NOT a road you want to go down.
 

Maya3

Well-Known Member
I'm so sorry that this happened.
Your wife is in my prayers. I will make an offering to Ganesh tonight before bed and pray for her. Please keep us posted.

Maya
 

satyaroop

Active Member
it is said that by regularly chanting the mahamrityumjaya mantra, accidents are prevented and it also assists in healing

hope your wife recovers soon.
 

Aupmanyav

Be your own guru
I am still all for raising the age of consent to 21 (instead of 18) and children yes, children can get a car license as soon as they turn 15...that is rubbish.
I am also against car and mobike makers to take speed as macho in advertisements. I think car racing, particularly when it intrudes in biologically sensitive environments (like Himalayas) is nothing other than stupidness (We have Himalayan rallies).
 

NobodyYouKnow

Misanthropist
I think I've got this 'sports macho' thing all worked out.

When guys see those well muscled, sports 'gladiators' strutting their stuff on a field somewhere, it reminds them about their own inadequacies and failings as a man...as a hunter/gatherer/warrior thing...so they must get drunk to compensate for this 'peen envy' thing...

That's my philosophy anyway...take it or leave it.
 

Northern Lights

Nam Myoho Renge Kyo
Sorry to hear of this incident. It's a shock I know. My wife had a similar incident in 2007 as miscarried as a result. (It was very early in the pregnancy but still an upsetting shock).

However, I think it is unfair to blame all bars, and everyone who uses a bar. Some people (in my country, the majority) use bars sensibly. Just a quiet drink after works perhaps, and without driving after drinking alcohol. Similarly, not all combinations of sport and bars (eg. sports bars) are inherently 'bad'. Some people enjoying a sensible drink or two while watching a sports game are doing no harm. They are just relaxing. They will not drive afterwards and they won't hurt anyone.

But of course, there certainly are the mindless minority who drink and drive, or get aggresive or cause some other upset to others. Isn't that the case with every endeavour in life?

I hope your wife recovers soon, and do take care of eachother.
 

Iti oj

Global warming is real and we need to act
Premium Member
I have Ganesha displayed on my alter and will gladly ask for his help in your wife's recovery.
 
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