DallasApple
Depends Upon My Mood..
I just don't think we can over look the psychology of it.With Tom yeah I think if he did not want to have sex with with trans female he should not have picked up a stranger to hop in the sack with.But if he had asked her out to start dating I think never mentioning you were born a female with a male body at some point would be hiding to big of a part of your life with someone that may be hoping to have a future with you longer term.It for me wouldn't even be just about "body parts" but the whole experience growing up with a male body even after at some point knowing without a doubt she was a female trapped in the body of a male.To me that's more about intimacy /emotional intimacy than merely disclosing information about our physical bodies.
I don't think its something that you should blurt out every time you meet anyone that finds you attractive and vice versa..Like "hi I'm Shirley and I'm a trans female".But I think in getting to know someone on an intimate level..leaving that part out?Im just imagining how it could not come out in a discussion even when talking about our childhoods.What was your life like growing up?If the person can not accept it then really do you want to be with them in the first place?If you can't talk about something that monumental in your life then your relationship is superficial.
I don't think its something that you should blurt out every time you meet anyone that finds you attractive and vice versa..Like "hi I'm Shirley and I'm a trans female".But I think in getting to know someone on an intimate level..leaving that part out?Im just imagining how it could not come out in a discussion even when talking about our childhoods.What was your life like growing up?If the person can not accept it then really do you want to be with them in the first place?If you can't talk about something that monumental in your life then your relationship is superficial.