I believe we must not give up in our search for God. What the apostle Paul said to idol- worshipping Athenians applies with equal force to us today. "so that they would seek God, if they might grope for him and really find him, although, in fact, he is not far off from each one of us. For by him we have life and move and exist, ...God has overlooked the times of such ignorance; but now he is declaring to all people everywhere that they should repent. Because he has set a day on which he purposes to judge the inhabited earth in righteousness by a man whom he has appointed, and he has provided a guarantee to all men by resurrecting him from the dead. (Acts 17:27-31)
I think the point of the question in the original post is that religion tends to restrain a person from their personal search. They trade their freedom to find God their own way for the group way. Isn't it true that when people's search for God takes them away from the group the group disowns them untill they relent and come back to do things the group's way?