EDIT: my title is poorly worded. It should say "... and hateful as they make religion out to be". If a mod could just change that I'd appreciate it, the wording is so improperly worded and counters my entire point.
For example, I saw a post elsewhere that said something about separating Islam from the planet in response to ISIS. You can imagine how my point that ISIS =! Islam went over. Further, in such contexts, the anti-religious hold to strict, old, and literal interpretation of the texts (ironically). Spreading this hate and ignorance, how are these movements ideogically any different?
So if someone wanted to kill the person that raped their daughter, you wouldn't see the difference? Both hate, both wish to destroy. That is true. Someone that hates nazis and searched the world to kill them...you can't see the difference?
Let's step back a bit and ask a basic question. Is it ever ok to cause harm to another? If you answer no to this then we could have a very long discussion in another thread. I say yes it is ok to cause harm to another at certain times. Self defense is a good example.
So the question then becomes under what condition(s) is harm justifiable? I think at this point we might be able to draw a distinction between theistic and atheistic ideology. True that everyone needs to be judged as an individual based on their own actions. But the theist can find justification for rape, murder, and genocide based on revelation and authority, while the atheist has no such appeal to authority. The atheist does not have the luxury of absolute justification of their hatred based on the interpret it anyway you want revelation.
I'm reminded of a recent event. A woman killed her 10 year old son because she believed god told her it was the only way to ensure he went to heaven. A commenter said he could think of a more loving act than to condemn herself to torment in this world and hell in the next so that her son would be guaranteed a place in heaven. The commenter said "if you truly believe this, what else could you do?"
A friend called this insanity. But there is nothing at all wrong with the commenters logic. IFF this is what you believe then he is correct regarding his comments. The insanity is the standard of truth used to arrive at the tenant; the negligence in questioning ones tenants.
The difference my friend, is that the theist gets his marching orders from another world. An immaterial world to come that no one knows if it even exists. A world that no one can agree what the marching orders are. An authority that can be used at whim to justify genocide, rape, murder, torture and all other sorts of things, with no one to answer to here and now.
The atheist has no such appeal. The atheist must answer to here and now. He can not afford to butcher here and now and charge it to the hereafter.