I am not completely thinking in terms of blame, certainly no more than you with your adamant sole blaming of Israel. I think the solution is for Palestinians, leaders in particular, to give up their position and goal of terminating the country of Israel and show a willingness and agree to live as peaceful neighbors.
Your position is utterly untenable because it's blind to
70+ years of history, & to the current escalated conflict.
Israel was & is still imprisoning Palestinians interminably
with no trial. It still treats them as legally, culturally, &
scripturally less worthy than Jews. 70+ years of murder,
theft, & many human rights & international law violations
have fostered such violent resistance.
Yet Israelis believe that greatly increasing brutal oppression
will work this time? Just prior to Oct 7, Israel had killed
more Palestinians than any year in the prior decade.
In that environment, why must those who suffer brutal
oppression be the ones who must initiate peace?
Why is it that you give Israel no responsibility to change
their failed ways?
That last question is rhetorical. I observe that religion is
the rotten core of this conflict. Generally, Christians &
Jews see Israel as ordained by God as the sacred land
for his Chosen People. Muslims are a rabid & unreasoned
enemy occupying Jewish land. This lens allows seeing
only Jewish entitlement & suffering. Palestinians are
an incurable enemy...an extension of Arab countries
who did & will threaten Israel's existence.
Christians & Jews who support apartheid & genocide
should be deeply ashamed that their actions oppose
their professed values.