It isn't my religion that is toxic...its the world we live in....or hadn't you noticed? It isn't my religion that teaches me to see the gross wrongdoing in the world...it is the nightly news. I guess you never watch it....or can you just ignore the events that are unhinging society? Can you just tune out the bad stuff...? What does that leave you with?
Your religion defines how you view the world. As I've explained to you, I have no use for its misanthropy, nihilism and pessimism. Those ideas don't help me to navigate life more effectively, so they have only negative value, like a bad smell in a room that taints your experience of that room. If this really were the horrible world you imagine it to be, there might be value in recognizing that in order to be more alert to the dangers and minimize the damage done by them.
If your worldview were more accurate, people like me should be hurt by the world more than those who understand that one needs to fear it. If people like me are more correct, then your life and mine should play out about the same, except with you needlessly fearing dangers that have been grossly overblown.
I have had a good life living it as if life is good and most people are good. I am grateful to have been born when I was instead of any time in the past, because life has never been better. We are living longer, healthier, safer, more comfortable, and more interesting lives than was possible a century ago or any time before that.
My maternal grandfather died of a heart attack in his early fifties before I was born, presumably because he had the same cardiovascular risk factors that I do. The difference is that I have access to effective medication that mitigates those risks. I'm already ten years older than he was when he died, and have good reason to expect 20-30 more years of life (I'm 62 now).
What you call "tuning out the bad stuff" is more properly understanding what things I can help and what things I cannot, and turning my attention away from the latter toward the former.
There is really is no useful information that doesn't have a direct impact on our lives, so I have no use for the news except local news, although I must confess to a morbid fascination with America's presidential problem. But that is just entertainment, not useful information. It's like a Shakespearean tragedy unfolding. Hamlet was indecisive, Macbeth was weak under the influence of an overly ambitious and ruthless wife, and Lear was the fool. Each of these larger-than-life characters was defeated by his fatal flaw. Trump's will be his hubris and narcissism.
So what benefit do you see coming from steeping in negativity as you seem to be encouraging me to do? I used to be more that way myself, back in the nineties when I first realized that America was dying. I was a political junkie, and seemed to be able to identify trends relatively early. My wife remembers vividly my "sky is falling" demeanor. I shared my alarm with her and anybody else that would listen. I convinced nobody, and people thought less of me, some even expressing concern. By the time they came around - and not because of me - I had mostly completed the grieving process, which ends with acceptance. Most of these other people, though now in agreement that America is changing for the worse and will likely never again be the country they remember, are still running around with their hair on fire. What's the value in that? It's unpleasant, unhealthy, and useless.