I think, if we don't know a person (at least here on RF) that is not because of any willingness to not know the person. I feel blessed by those forum members who feel free to share with me much about themselves, and treasure that information. Those forum members who would rather keep information private, I completely respect that. If there's anyone here trying to be someone their not, I would feel saddened, because I'd hope that they would know the rest of us well enough to know that we'd love them, no matter who they are. (I should give the obligatory warning: unless they're the disembodied brain of Hitler. That hasn't come up yet, but I always want to cover all bases.)