I thought you believed in afterlife, and wouldn't that make things 'easier' knowing that?
Being an atheist, death is the one thing where I'm 'jealous' of a believer. It would be great to think that I'm going to another life after I die however I think that when I die, I'm going into a very, very deep sleep for eternity. I'm very sure of this, because all we are, are intelligent animals that die, like everything else in the world and universe.
Could I ask a couple of questions, please.
How can you be so sure that there is an afterlife? Isn't it likely that there is no afterlife, knowing what we know?
There's no "certainty" beyond what science as thus far given us, that the
basic foundation of varying religious belief agrees with.
Neither energy nor matter can be destroyed. But both are reconfigured. I say
basic foundation of religious belief because IMO religious text are the understanding of humankind at the time of the conception of the ideas, so therefore
the polish, or rather the stories, are subject to reinterpretation.
What's the secret to getting to that point of belief? Any evidence at all?
The "secret" for me is Faith, or more simply put, living with an attitude of gratitude in a que sera, sera world. To focus on what's good. To aim towards what's good. And let the good cushion the hard blows that WILL come from time to time. Build up that cushion, and don't worry about it!
So I take it that my body, including the brain containing memory, will decay and return to the earth to be reconfigured in some other form. That includes the
electric components of the brain. But then, IMB, there is another type of energy that is the life force. Again, a type of energy that can not be destroyed but will be reconfigured. This, at this time in humankind's journey of evolution and discovery, many of us believe to be the eternal image of "God" or our
spirit/soul.
Traditionally this spirit/soul is the essence of humankind that has a debatable future. Even the most conservative believe it to be
eternal. I just don't believe in heaven & hell, and "the world to come" in my personal belief just means this world in a future time. Some believe in another deminsion, some another planet, and so forth. I have a more simplified belief that sticks with what we know until it evolves into the Mystery. The Mystery? Que Sera, Sera. Can't control it, so don't worry about it.
Are you frightened of dying? Why is it important?
I'm a wuss when it comes to pain, but that's my only fear. I'm not the least bit concerned about what comes, or doesn't come, next. Do the birds fear what comes next? From my experience they only fear the pain. When I take one away from my cat, their little hearts are all a flutter. But I leave them alone and they calm down, get themselves together, and fly off to safety. OR sometimes they lie there calmly until their heart just stops.